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Straddlers on Coming Out 11 years, 4 months ago
Hey, so I guess I’m looking for advice, I’d love to be all casual and cool coming out to my classmates when it sort-of tangentially comes up in conversation, but I never take the opportunity. Today a classmate was asking me why I didn’t have a boyfriend yet, and I just kind of mumbled and nodded because it felt like my legs were gonna explode. I’m…[Read more]
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Tucson Straddlers 11 years, 5 months ago
Hey Con-nichiwa is this weekend! I wouldn’t mention it but I saw a girl running around usung a rainbow flag as a cape.
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Doctor Whovians 11 years, 5 months agoBecause I had to wait for it to be put on Netflix and then forgot about it I JUST SAW the episodes with the Silence/spaceman/President Nixon! ASNDLAKMDFFFF!!! I think I might like this more than Blink! …I just wanted to rave about it somewhere even though I’m very late. Thank you.
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Tucson Straddlers 11 years, 6 months ago
Well there are at least TWO straddlers in Tucson!
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Never had a girlfriend 11 years, 11 months ago
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I have the same problem. There have been so many opportunities for me to just mention it, but I always clam up. I guess I don’t really have any advice, just commiseration.
That’s okay! It’s good to know I’m not the only one!
Oh man, I’ve been there. I went to a Catholic high school (I didn’t even THINK about coming out there) and now I’m at a historically Catholic college within a secular university where a lot of the people are still Catholic or were at least raised that way.
I just have to say that there are some people who are more accepting than you would think,…[Read more]
some people may not think for a fact that you are straight i know tonss of people who use that question to make sure your really a lesbian and to confirm that the rumors are true you know?
also i’ve been through the same thing but it helps to just nnot think about what your saying and just blurt out well…im gay and then after that things go one of 2 ways the bad way or the good way which usually means a shit ton of questions :)
Hey I was having the same problem recently….I kept missing all the obvious cues and was starting to go a bit crazy…in the end I just forced it into the conversation, it was awkward, but its out and I feel better now :) just go for it x