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I have an issue. I’m volunteering at this newspaper and there’s a guy who works there part-time. He’s a nice dude, but obvs I’m not into that whole thing. He seems to think we have this connection and he’s constantly flirting with me and telling me he wants to get together at weekends.
The major issue is that he’s from a country where queers…[Read more]-
You could also keep turning him down for weekend get-togethers and it might hit him one day that you’re not interested.
I don’t tell people I’m gay. I let my body language let them know I’m not interested. Usually works.
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Some dudes really canβt take a hint, though, especially those who have been nursing a particular crush for a while. You often need to be direct.
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Well, you could always use the lie straight girls use β βI have a boyfriend.β(although of course, this has a lot of potential to backfire)
More seriously, though, I would just be direct and tell him you’re not interested. If you’re worried you might reading too much into his behavior (as I was when I was in this situation a few months ago), just…[Read more]
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Well it seems my problem has solved itself. He got a new job. Now I just have to hope that he doesn’t call me every weekend like he said he wanted to.
I don’t mind telling him I’m queer but I just don’t think he’d get it. Ah well. I need not fret any longer.
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Straddler-on-Straddler advice 11 years, 5 months ago
Hello,
I recently started a GSA/QSU/Coalition at my high school. We had a really good turn out for our first meeting, considering my school is really unspirited about most things. I am trying to think of topics that we could discuss at our next meeting. Any suggestions?-
PS: We already talked about how we feel the our school’s environment concerning the LGBT community, although we had an all girl turn out.
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You can talk about who in the group is out and who’s not! In my GSA we always made sure noone inadvertently outed someone in their other social situations by mentioning what they may have said. We also discouraged talking about personal information from GSA outside of GSA.
You can also discuss whether anyone’s facing any hardships like coming…[Read more]
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Thank you. I will keep them in mind.
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Any Straddlers going to Rollercon? Holla!
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Femme Straddlers 11 years, 6 months agoHi ladies, I’m new to the site. I was looking around at this group and your comments and … Wow, I just realized I’m not a femme…
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Femme Straddlers 11 years, 6 months agoso i just indulged in a homemade oatmeal & honey facial mask, and i’m pretty in love with the results. anyone else have diy-style tips?
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I put lemon juice from a real lemon on my face every night, it stings a little at first but works wonders for blemishes :)
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Try equal parts apple cider vinegar and water all over as a toner after you wash your face and before you moisturize! It shrinks your pores and, at least for me, keeps the grease at bay for much longer than going without.
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Olive oil, eggs, honey in the hair. The smell is horrid but when you rinse out it is sooo worth it! so shiny and silky.
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