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Jamie posted an update in the group
Never had a girlfriend 11 years agoTruth is, it seemed like when I was identifying solely as straight I got hit on and asked out a lot by girls. Now that I’m open and honest that doesn’t seem to happen/I happen to have a boyfriend who is totally cool with me finding a girl, but most girls aren’t totally fine with that – which I get.
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Chicagostraddlers 11 years ago
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Amber G posted an update in the group
CATS 11 years ago
Recently adopted a beautiful tux tom cat, named him Vlad. Unfortunately, he’s a coward. On the plus side, he’s a great lap warmer!
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Amber G joined the group
CATS 11 years ago
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kate posted an update in the group
Chicagostraddlers 11 years ago
Hi, my first post.
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Chicagostraddlers 11 years ago
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Tia posted an update in the group
Chicagostraddlers 11 years, 5 months ago
Does anyone here go to or know someone who goes to the U of Chicago (grad or undergrad)? I’ve just been accepted to a grad school program there. But UChi has a reputation for being super serious and relatively conservative…I’m wondering if this is exaggerated or true. Any insight would be appreciated.
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Hey! I am an fourth year undergrad at UChicago but I know a lot of grad students here. I think what you’ve heard about the school stems from two places that you (probably) won’t have to worry about as a grad student. The super serious aspect largely has to do with the undergrad population, who have lovingly embraced the “where fun comes to die”…[Read more]
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Oh man I totally didn’t see that this was posted 7 months ago. Sorry :(
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I already made a decision, but thanks for the advice anyway, Kelsey. I love the city of Chicago but decided to attend the University of Michigan after visiting both places. Ann Arbor is boring compared to Chicago, but it’s a cool and mellow place full of ridiculously nice, inspiring and liberal people.
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Tia joined the group
Chicagostraddlers 11 years, 5 months ago
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Steph M posted an update in the group
Chicagostraddlers 11 years, 5 months ago
yo. im new. graduating college and moving back to chicago soon. lookin to make some new friends. add me =]
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Chicagostraddlers 11 years, 5 months ago
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Chicagostraddlers 11 years, 5 months ago
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Camila posted an update in the group
Never had a girlfriend 11 years, 5 months agoLiving in the should-be-teeming-with-opportunity-but-aren’t-really suburbs of D.C gets frustrating. Its like I KNOW they’re out there, I just cant find them.
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Michelle posted an update in the group
Never had a girlfriend 11 years, 5 months agoI’ve never had a girlfriend…hell, I don’t really know that many queer women IRL. Is this anyone else’s problem?
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I’m kinda in the same boat, never had a girlfriend and can’t seem to find any queer women in my city! The few I do manage to find are always either just passing through or in very committed LTRs =\
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I know women who are about ten to fifteen years older than me through political groups. I go to a queer friendly campus but I only know gay men, no lesbians. I know it’s about making yourself visible but I’m not visible AT ALL.
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I’m not exactly sure how to go about that other than wearing a shirt that says “YES I LIKE GIRLS” or something to that manner…
Possibly visibility ties back into the description for this group – shy… anyone know ways to break this bubble??-
Idk, I’m pretty femme and nothing about me screams “alternative lifestyle”. A “YES I LIKE GIRLS” shirt may be appropriate…
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All of my friends are straight and I don’t know anyone who is even a little bit queer and female.
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Leah Riches posted an update in the group
Never had a girlfriend 11 years, 6 months agoall the girls i have wanted to be with haven’t been into relationships, so ‘seeing’ girls is my only luck these days aha if that even is a thing, aah confusing times ey.
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CATS 11 years, 6 months ago
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