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Femme Straddlers 12 years, 5 months agoI made this group coz I often feel like the only femme in the village when I go out. So I love to be reassured that I’m not the only girly girl out there and not the only one who faces: “you’re too pretty to be gay” “or no you’re not.” when I tell someone I like ladies.
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Virginia Vaginas 12 years, 5 months ago
I already know plenty of gays at school, but I’m curious whether any are on Autostraddle – Virginia Tech??
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Virginia Vaginas 12 years, 5 months ago
Yay for Virginia Beach!
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Virginia Vaginas 12 years, 5 months ago
Hey all! I’m from NN, but moving to Richmond soon for grad school!
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Virginia Vaginas 12 years, 5 months ago
Heyla Virginians! I’m new, and from up in the Northern-ish area!
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Virginia Vaginas 12 years, 5 months ago
Hey Virginia! I am moving to you next month, yay!
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Virginia Vaginas 12 years, 5 months ago
So it has come to my attention that most of you want to Meet Queers in Your Area, but not a lot of you have listed where exactly in Virginia you’re located. I’m from northern Vagina, but currently reside in Charlottesville, VA for school. You?
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i will be moving to vienna on june 1. anyone near me?
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i’m from mclean, which is the town 10-15 min away from vienna. i’ll be going back to charlottesville for summer school around June 7, but i have some friends in the area and there are plenty of gays!
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Rough! June 7 is my birthday. Don’t be a turd and come celebr8 in DC.
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I live in the southern part of the state. any one out there?
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I suspect you may be correct.
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im super late on this reply! lol but im in vabeach, and i wanna find all the gays i can:)
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I’m from around Chesapeake. And as far as I know, possibly the only trans in my city. haha
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I KNOW RIGHT, I can like to coordinate my eyeliner to my sundress and still like teh ladies! And the too pretty argument, UGH UGH UGH. You’re too ugly to be straight.
One of the best compliments I ever got was from a butch who noticed that I coordinated my eyeliner to my nail polish and the accent color in my scarf. Fear now, folk who appreciate this are out there!
“you’re too pretty to be gay” is the WORST. Gaydom is what ugly women do (beause they can’t find a man)? Um, no.
augh, this drives me mad every time someone tells me this. my best friend’s parents actually think it’s just a phase specifically because i’m “too pretty” to like women. what kind of logic is that? fffff get out and shut the door when you leave.
I’ve had gay men say it to me, I didn’t even know what to say…
hey, im in the same boat, the “too pretty” thing is a popular come back if i tell someone im gay but theres also the “aw, such a waste” – i wana say , wtf?? to most of those ppl but i hate confrontation and just sorta roll with the punches. i needa get a back bone installed! lol
Oh my god, my old boss (who is female!!!!) once told me it was ‘such a waste’ that Portia de Rossi is gay. I just kind of gaped at her, but I wish I’d asked her what the hell she meant, because I never understand that crap.
but in all honesty, I think we’ve all secretly thought the same about a straight girl :P
I’m glad to know I’m not the only one who worries about the way I dress affecting whether or not people believe that I’m not attracted to men. I mean, I hope I’m never self-centered enough to think I’m the “only one who…” anything, but still, nice to see confirmation.
that’s coz femmes are hidden in masses of straight girls, tis why I had to create the group.