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Heather posted an update in the group
Not Straight After All, Hey-O! 7 years, 8 months agoHi, all. So relieved to find this group. Another late-late bloomer. I’m 38 years old. Married to a man for 11 years (we lived together five years prior to that, for a total of 16 years). No children between us, not for want of trying. I grew up working-class in Texas, and while I was always outspoken on LGBTQ issues–supported friends and family…[Read more]
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Becka posted an update in the group
Not Straight After All, Hey-O! 7 years, 9 months agoSo glad to just know this group exists. I’ve got my own long story, but won’t bore you all with it. Suffice to say, I’ve come to understand my orientation in the last 6 months or so, and the immediate implications of that are still shaking themselves out. It’s still in the messy-scary stage, but that’s ok.
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I am going through the same thing and it is rough, particularly when married to a guy. I am trying to sort stuff out and I hate feeling like I am hurting good people, like my husband, but the heart wants what the heart wants. Best of luck to you, I hear it gets better =)
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Thanks for your good wishes, and same to you. It’s really the hurting good people that I get snagged on, too. But then I think about how staying with my husband would be hurting him…because I could be keeping him from being with someone who wants him in the way he deserves. He and I could be great friends – we ARE great friends – but he’s an…[Read more]
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Wish I could just have coffee with you both. Same situation – in love with a woman, married to a really great guy. No idea what to do. Overwhelmed.
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Hi, claudette. I think you’ve made a good first step by reaching out to other people. No matter what you decide to do about your marriage or your other relationship, rallying a support group can make all the difference. Even a one-member support group, lol! Someone to talk to who isnt directly involved in the situation is so valuable. They can be…[Read more]
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Natasha posted an update in the group
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Any advice on subtly outing myself at work? It has literally never come up, but I work at a high school and I want to be a role model without…
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Me: Let me make this about my sexuality!
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