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NYC Autostraddlers 12 years, 4 months agoWhat are y’all doing in terms of pride parties? Since there’s apparently no Rodeo Disco this year. sad face.
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Chloe posted an update in the group
OkCupid Survivor Group 12 years, 4 months agoThe only girl I’ve met IRL on OkCupid so far went straight.
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Why is it so hard to meet a lesbian.-
I had a fiancee go straight.
That was uncomfortable.
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this is months late but omg, that is horrible :( I’m so sorry
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bi girls don’t count? :(
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What I mean is, she was listed as bi, saw me a couple times, then changed her profile to straight and told me she didn’t want to date women.
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That’s really annoying, but I guess she was one of those cases where maybe she thought she was bi because she thought women were pretty or something, and then when she actually started dating women she realized she wasn’t? I’ve seen that happen with a few girls I know irl.
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OkCupid Survivor Group 12 years, 4 months agoI just did a head count, and all but two of the girls I’ve kissed were a result of OKCupid.
I feel dirty.
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shinyshoes posted an update in the group
OkCupid Survivor Group 12 years, 4 months agoAnyone else find that listing yourself as Bi means couples just keep approaching you for threesomes? Um, no thanks. I’m actually mainly dating guys from OKC, feel a bit weird meeting women online and actually do better with women irl than men as I read fairly gay and do roller derby so spend most of my free time around queer girls.
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YES. Dear god. I actually started limiting access to my account because of that. “straight people” can’t see me now. I’ve gotten a couple nice meetings with some bi guys out of that. Still working on the girls part.
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Yup, had that problem, too.
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I’ve never had a message from a threesome-pursuing couple. I’m just puzzled that they keep coming up in my searches because they list themselves as “single.” If you need to put a disclaimer at the bottom of your profile about how you have a boyfriend YOU ARE NOT SINGLE.
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That happens to me a bunch! And random guys. I’ve actually gone back and forth between listing myself as “bi” and “gay”. I suppose overall I’m bi, but I feel like no one wants to date bi girls and that it cuts down my chances of actually meeting someone. Anyone else have that problem?
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Luna posted an update in the group
OkCupid Survivor Group 12 years, 4 months agoI knew I wasn’t alone. Oh WELCOME TO YOU ALL.
I’m so sorry about the creepers and the non responders and the fronters and the fakers and the sexual skeeevers.HUGS.
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Rinnie posted an update in the group
OkCupid Survivor Group 12 years, 4 months agoI had a previous profile where I chose “bisexual” because the options are so limited, and then I got a ton of skeevy guys messaging me about sex, which … ick. I’m creating a new profile and just going with “gay” since I’m more attracted to girls anyway and I’m sick of getting cyber-jumped by creeps.
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OKC has added a feature recently where gay and bi users can keep straight people from viewing our pages, so if you’re mainly there for girls but not 100% lesbian that is another option.
It’s weird, though, I’m bi but have myself looking for “girls who like girls” and say I’m more interested in girls but not closed to guys if we have a lot in…[Read more]
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Yeah, I checked off that option this time around, and it’s sooo much better.
The creeps are infinitely more persistent than the respectful ones. :/
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