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Femme Straddlers 12 years, 5 months agoGUYYYYYS I’m posting about @prufrock and my blog again but I don’t care, because this is awesome: http://buzzcutsandbustiers.com/2011/05/24/ask-your-bffs-butch-femme-friends-a-good-idea-or-the-best-idea/ Wherein we tackle anything you throw at us. Because surely you’ve got questions that can only be answered by a smart, lovingly snarky, and…[Read more]
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I have a rhetorical (cough cough right) question for you.
How is it that all the couples I know are monogomous, but all the people I date are poly (as a lifestyle). How’d all the monogomous people find each other?
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Yay thanks for playin! Question has been noted, and we’ll reply with the link here when our first answers post goes up! :)
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how do butches tell femmes are queer? are we really that invisible? I mean, I have dyke hair now obvs, but I don’t think it makes me look any queerer…just wondering. ;)
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Sweet, thanks for the question! We got ya and should have an answers column up soon! :)
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These questions. I second them. And will plug my own blog in which the “invisible femme” phenomenon was a recent topic: http://deviantthoughts.wordpress.com/2011/05/15/fabulous-femmes/
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Sweet! Will definitely check it out. Our answers column is up if you want to take a look! http://buzzcutsandbustiers.com/2011/05/27/ask-your-bffs-monogamy-femme-invisibility-and-butch-protective-energy/
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Post is up!! http://buzzcutsandbustiers.com/2011/05/27/ask-your-bffs-monogamy-femme-invisibility-and-butch-protective-energy/ Feedback welcomed, natch.
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You two are awesome! Thank you for the very thoughtful answer–online dating has been a whole delicate balance of expectations, reality, voicing my needs but being willing to try new things–but it will be something to think on. :D
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Thanks again for the question! The frequency of the feature will probably be based on volume of questions, so never hesitate if there’s another topic you want us to tackle :)
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When I find that great lady on a dating site, I want to write her but I always feel like what I have to say is DUMB. Advice on what to write to break the ice and make nice? ;)
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Yay thanks for the question! We’ll keep it on hand for the next installment!!
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Movies 12 years, 5 months agoSaw Burke and Hare a few days ago. I’d recommend, it was set in Edinburgh and everyone had Scottish accents, so good! But also funny, all based on a true story.
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I can’t get enough Scottish accents. SWOON.
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Been dating GF for 2 years. Have a move in the near future, we’ll be splitting up then. How do I keep it from weighing on me, especially when we’re together? It’s killing what’s left of the relationship.
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Ooh, this is a tough one. I had a relationship that had to transition into long distance while I went to grad school, so I kind of know the feeling you’re describing. Well, I assume that even though you’re not going to be dating after the move, you’ll still keep in touch, yes? I’d suggest something like starting to use Skype now and have video…[Read more]
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The Skype idea is a great one. I found myself in a relationship that in abruptly became long-distance, and I found it really hard to connect emotionally in the same way over Skype, because it is such a different way of communicating, it took ages to get used to.
As Raksha says, good even if it’s more keeping in touch than keeping up a…[Read more]
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