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+ Hey we’re in this gift guide! Twice! 10 Gifts for Your Feminist Kid That Support Indie Voices.
+ Ashley Ray-Harris needs your Help with Benny’s Vet Bill! Benny is Ashley’s cat who recently went into kidney failure after lapping up some radiator fluid from a leaking radiator in her apartment. Her landlord isn’t helping so maybe you can?
Queer as in F*ck You
+ Slate’s running a Lesbian Issue that you can read.
Welcome to the Hellmouth
+ Oh damn. This is What Happens to the Bodies of the Women You Know. On miscarriage and abortion and the fact that our bodies are ours, and tissue is tissue.
The first blob was properly (and safely) disposed of as medical waste, the second blob was flushed down the toilet, and last week’s blob was sent off to the lab. They were possibility in flesh; but asking me to believe they were children is asking me to believe that three of my four children are dead.
+ UGH I LOVE THIS. Tacky.
The cart filled with items of a very particular nature: shapeless, black and navy. My mom would hold up a garment, compare it to my frame, and note, “Oh, that would be flattering.” It was somewhere among the harem pants that I finally caught the eye of her friend, midway through spreading a color-blocked boat-neck number over my torso.
“I’m not actually interested in things that are flattering,” I said. “Can you take me to the tacky?”
Her face lit up, and we moved to the leopard print.
+ Do you wanna stab a snowman? Men Who Got Away With It in 2016
Saw This, Thought of You
+ Remember Pepsi Holiday Spice, the Winter Tradition That Could’ve Been. Lots of beverage talk today.