In which our team answers our members’ questions about the care and keeping of their skin!

“So many people struggle with getting out of their head and into their body during sex.”

If a date doesn’t suggest a meetup, does that mean they’re not interested? Should you break up over differences in how you relate to sex and desire? What’re tips for coping with treatment resistant ADHD? And more!

Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!

Getting out there after separating from your cishet husband, mixing masculine and feminine style, asking people at the bar to kiss you on your birthday, and more!

Traveling while queer / trans and pregnant, PDA at Disney, tick checks…and more!

Advice for coping with your partner’s internalized fat-phobia, wedding vows, navigating social situations and friendships as an autistic person, and more!

Coping with fatphobia and QAnon relatives, hosting your first party, regifting and more!

We have 26 whole questions on all things gender! From parenting to transition to clothing to inclusion and exclusion in queer spaces, and more!

What do you do with your facial hair, how do you make friends in your 30’s, where is your motivation these days, how do you cope with your wife breaking things off, with an unhealthy friendship, with changes in your sexuality? The team answers these questions and so many more!

Should you forgive an abusive parent? What should you do with a conflict between your ex girlfriend and a friend? And more!

The team gets into whether there’s something wrong with you if you’re not dating (no there is not), lube and Octavia Butler recommendations, taking care of your pit hair, not knowing why she broke up with you, and more!

A+ members get their personal advice questions answered by Autostraddle writers, twice a month in the A+ Advice Box! This week Autostraddle team answers A+ member questions about biphobia, struggling to text friends back, dealing with gender feelings and weight gain, tips for hot strap-on sex, finding that perfect masc-of-center scent and more!

Career anxiety, dating after sexaul assault, consent and polyamory and more!

Looking for children’s books with queer moms, binding as a cis woman, communications issues in relationships, and more!

Signaling that you’re queer, the importance of friends in dating, a-traditional proposals and more!

Jumpsuits at weddings, overalls, office wear, thrifting and tailoring and more! The Autostraddle team talks FASHION, specifically your fashion, in this special themed A+ Advice Box!

We’re here in this round of advice to tackle everything that is heavy. Our team answers questions around adoption, sexual assault within the queer community, the personal decisionmaking around having white friends as a POC — and more.

Breaking up with a queer anti-choice friend, your partner isn’t over their ex, and more!

Supporting a partner with an HIV diagnosis, dating anxiety, dressing while pregnant, and more!