The confident vibe you get from me? The “naturally sexy” way you (might) think I am? It’s not natural at all. It’s a choice; it can be learned. Here’s how!

Is that insecurity in my pocket or have you just not sexted me back yet?

There is literally no incorrect way to do college and Autostraddle staff are the proof.

Is it a libido gap? Or is it a sign that a major relationship change is in order?

A mom turned to an internet message board to ask how she should handle the fact that her daughter is a lesbian and people actually responded and gave great advice. Then we wanted to give some advice, too.

“How do I deal with an assault that wasn’t rape? How can I keep from feeling like my assault is being minimized?”

You and your ex are going to the same social event? You should probs read this first.

“Give her time, give her love and support and when she’s ready to whack the rainbow flag bumper sticker on her car, then she will.”

Once upon a time I married a man, had kids, and realized I was a lesbian. Here’s what happened and what I wish somebody had told me at the time.

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