What does it mean when to identify as a “bottom” or a “submissive” in queer sex? I come armed with data and some very vague answers.

Slick back your hair and cuff those sleeves — we’re heading back to the 1940s and ’50s.

This week on NSFW Sunday: Lesbian sex (and queer sex) has been proven to be the best. Also, sex at your parents’ house, orgasms and exercise, and the Map of Human Sexuality.

Is it silly to be hung up on this?

But face-blindess is a bitch.

The thought of a suppository didn’t exactly set my vulva ablaze, but I decided to keep an open mind and an open vagina.

Do you really want to be that person who survived a plane crash and then died from putting a literal stick up their ass? No, you don’t.

For the first time I was able to experience, without pain, the feeling of having my partner’s fingers inside of me and we found a new level of intimacy and excitement… How did I spend an entire decade of my life letting the medical system tell me that constant pelvic pain was acceptable?

“I can play with my chest and eat a peach while getting pounded.”

Let’s make some noise for the bottoms in the house! (It’s me, the bottom in the house.)

Being self-conscious was my entire personality back then, wondering who around me might find me unattractive and why. The port under my skin felt like an obvious answer.

May is Masturbation Month! Here’s your guide to doing you as only you can.

When it comes to boundaries, our strengths are our weaknesses and our weaknesses are our strengths. (Also let us talk about Raven Symoné’s chaotic gay TikTok, shall we?)

Ah, bodies. These sacks of meat, bones and skin that we must drag around until we come up with a better way to get through this thing called life. We knew we needed to dig into this and who better to do it with than the one and only Samantha Irby?

It’s time to normalize giving sex toys as gifts, and not just to partners. Everyone’s stuck at home anyway!

Stretching can certainly prevent your muscles from getting sore, but focusing on your posture and form will give you the best finger sex results.

“The first months of Lex were frenzied and horny and I loved it so much. Even if I didn’t match with anyone I loved the energy. Now it’s people talking about longing and dread and looking for roommates?”

Happy holidays! And by “happy” I mean, things sure feel really bad right now?? But luckily our gift to you is a virtual one AKA our long-awaited mailbag episode!

Your partner doesn’t want to talk about raising your kids to be anti-racist, longing to reach out to a former friend, and more!

Thank you so much to everyone who came to the live facilitation of this educational workshop led by Shelli! If you missed it, you can watch the recording here and refer to the provided transcript!