The deal with love spells, the importance of diplomacy, the blistering erotic potential of celibacy, sex-positive asexuality and some smut.

What does it mean when to identify as a “bottom” or a “submissive” in queer sex? I come armed with data and some very vague answers.

A few minor adjustments can make fingering easier, even when chronic pain is cramping your style.

Have you all see the “Flesh” music video? There’s girls making out in it. Do you want to tell me how you feel about it or how I should feel about it? I think you do. also: sex ed video games, you’re lying about not having cybersex, vice versas, keeping your sex off facebook, female masturbation, and you know. other stuff of a sexual nature.

Lube. Just lube. Lube for regular sex, with or without toys. Lube anytime, for anything. It’s lube!

We’ve been talking about tops, bottoms and switches for a few weeks and today we’re doing a little glossary of the other words you use to describe how you have sex!

“Do you have color-changing LED light bulbs and/or light strips?”

This week on NSFW Sunday: Lesbian sex (and queer sex) has been proven to be the best. Also, sex at your parents’ house, orgasms and exercise, and the Map of Human Sexuality.

“Bumble gives you two free filters. Usually filtering paidbut I def liked picking and choosing which ones to turn on and off. I fucked around a lot with the star sign and height — I can no longer allow Libras to disturb my peace.”

Let’s make some noise for the bottoms in the house! (It’s me, the bottom in the house.)

This week on NSFW Sunday: writing about sex, car sex, g-spots, the most provocative books of 2012 and more.

If you’re looking for a double-ended dildo, the Share Lite is an excellent option, but it absolutely does not stay in place without a harness.

So many homosexy lesbian tumblr alerts, we thought it was time we start making an official list! Also; getting Your Vagina Vajazzled, sans-vibrator orgasm tips, sex advice, the importance of sexual expression, “Coyote Ugly” but naked and so much moar!

I never wanted to live with a cat. Of course, the universe had other plans.

Please just say how you feel!!!!

I knew they taught about safety in BDSM culture, and I assumed that this ethic would carry through in their COVID safety. I was wrong.

I learned some weird things about wedding hashtags while fixating on this.

Slick back your hair and cuff those sleeves — we’re heading back to the 1940s and ’50s.

Whether you’re a lesbian who dated men as a teen or a queer person who dates lots of genders, our community is far too mixed and gender is far too complicated to leave men — cis and trans — out of our discussions.

This week on NSFW Lesbosexy Sunday: safer sex in queer porn, old-fashioned handcuffs, and talking about sex.