Results for: no fucks to give
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How To Set the Dress Code for Your Queer Wedding
We’re queering dress codes!
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Blush and Bashful: Why Am I So Stressed About a Wedding Hashtag?
I learned some weird things about wedding hashtags while fixating on this.
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Blush and Bashful: How to Elope
When you elope it’s fantastically freeing to only focus on yourselves.
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Also.Also.Also: Mary Lambert’s Wedding Is Giving Gay Autumn Splendor
She keeps me warm. And also: Fiona Apple is a court watcher in Maryland in her spare time (a model citizen, one might say), nine gay ghost stories, and Frog & Toad are cozy queer icons.
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I’m a Queer Bride on a Budget — And I Went to a Bridal Expo
Have you ever heard of a Bridal Expo? I sure hadn’t! And did you know there are wedding-themed porta potties?!
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How To Make the Website for Your Lesbian Wedding
I put the date on my website homepage no less than three times because apparently GAYS CAN’T READ.
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Blush and Bashful: How To Plan a Lesbian Wedding Ceremony
Somewhere in between thrifting 50 floral print hankies and meeting with the queer chef who is catering my wedding, I realized that I had to actually… figure out what I wanted my wedding ceremony to look like.
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Blush and Bashful: I’m Writing a Lesbian Wedding Column and You’re Invited
Welcome to Blush & Bashful, a new biweekly column about planning a queer wedding.
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Lesbian Weddings on TV: From Carol and Susan to Bette and Tina
The history of lesbian weddings on TV: parents refusing to attend, wild ’90s hats, untimely deaths, a weed brownie rave on the Eiffel Tower, an impromptu prison wedding, the union of two solo gems and so much more.
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La Boda Jota #3: What’s a Fat Tomboy Femme to Wear on Her Wedding Day?
The first question people asked me when I got engaged was what I was going to wear to the wedding. My impulse reaction was to blurt out, “how the fuck should I know?”
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Love That Looks Like Me: Finding My Queer, Non-Binary Place in the Wedding Industry
“And there was Susan and Rachel at the heart of it all, dancing to the band Susan had sworn would play her wedding if she ever got married. As they laughed and moved to the music and worked up such a sweat that their jackets had to come off, I saw a glimpse of the future wedding I hope for, marrying someone I love, the two of us not fitting so strictly into the feminine.”
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La Boda Jota #1: We’re Not Gonna Wait ‘Til I’m 28
As I quickly learned from the jump, when two queer Latinas are trying to get married — something that sometimes feels like is unheard of — there’ll be some bumps in the road.
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A Handy Form Letter For That Relative Who Won’t Attend Your Gay Wedding
WHY ARE YOU BEING SO MEAN TO ME?!?!?!!?!
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Love & Canada: My Lesbian Immigration Marriage Feelings, Part 1
The thing about my future immigration marriage is that it’s an immigration marriage but not an IMMIGRATION marriage. I still don’t want to know what save the dates are though.
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Wedding Feelings I’m Powering Through: 40 Day Countdown
I’m getting married in 40 days! Here are some unfiltered feelings and things about that, because what else was I supposed to do?
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Say Yes to the Dress Recap: Brittney Griner and Glory Johnson
Where Brittney Griner and Glory Johnson become our favorite lesbian couple and we all get married. You’re going to need some tissues for this one. Or a blow horn.
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You Need Help: A Disappointing Engagement
So you’re engaged, but your fiancée won’t let you tell anyone about it yet. What to do?
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So You Want to Put A Ring On It: Engagement Ring Shopping 101
A resident Engaged Queer Person helps you figure out how to you start looking for/purchasing an engagement ring!
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Carrie and Bren’s Great Big Lesbian Wedding With 300 Queers On A Mountaintop
After 19 years together, Brendin and Carrie tied the knot on top of Mt.Feelings, and we have about a billion pictures to prove it.
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Marriage Isn’t A Coupon You Have to Redeem
“Marriage is like a chlorinated community pool that we now get access to. I think that people forget that queers have been swimming in the ocean the whole time.”