Results for: no fucks to give
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A Trans Guy’s Guide to Grindr
You don’t have to preemptively feel shame about your body parts. Do you know how many cis gay men hate their bodies? Why do you think Equinox exists?
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All the Chaotic Gay Questions I’ve Asked on a First Date
“Do you have color-changing LED light bulbs and/or light strips?”
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Going With the Flow: Red Flag or Hottest Quality?
Please just say how you feel!!!!
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How To Support a Sex Partner With an Eating Disorder
I now have three years of recovery and a wonderful girlfriend by my side. I think I’m ready to talk about ways we can support our partners who have eating disorders.
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 209: Bottoming with Chingy
Let’s make some noise for the bottoms in the house! (It’s me, the bottom in the house.)
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 203: Dating Men
Whether you’re a lesbian who dated men as a teen or a queer person who dates lots of genders, our community is far too mixed and gender is far too complicated to leave men — cis and trans — out of our discussions.
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You Need Help: My Partner Won’t Say “I Love You”
Is it silly to be hung up on this?
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You’re a Bad Tipper? That’s a Red Flag!
If someone has to serve you while you flirt relentlessly or converse stiffly, then they should be paid extra for that labor.
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Dating Download: Three Lesbians Try Bumble and Date On a Deadline
“Bumble gives you two free filters. Usually filtering paidbut I def liked picking and choosing which ones to turn on and off. I fucked around a lot with the star sign and height — I can no longer allow Libras to disturb my peace.”
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You Need Help: Is Substance Use a Dealbreaker?
As someone who’s dealt with substance issues, my friends and my therapist told me to cut and run, so I did. And now I regret it.
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You Need Help: Will I Ever Grow Out Of The Messy Questioning Phase?
Accept the messy questioning phase. It’s the whole point of being alive.
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 202: Boundaries
When it comes to boundaries, our strengths are our weaknesses and our weaknesses are our strengths. (Also let us talk about Raven Symoné’s chaotic gay TikTok, shall we?)
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 204: Partner’s Pets
Animals, like people, have their own personalities and should be taken on a case-by-case basis. (AKA wherein Drew bravely says that snakes are maybe a bit sexy thanks to a certain pop star.)
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 205: Public Relationships
This week we’ve brought on someone in a gaymous power couple: Grace Lavery! But being in a public relationship isn’t just the joys of ambitious4ambitious. There’s also the matter of boundaries and privacy.
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 206: Celebrity Crushes
Celebrity crushes mean more to queer people than they do to straight people. They can be our first expressions of queer desire or our first expressions of gender envy. They can be a safe place to try out urges that aren’t ready for the real world.
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 109: Fucking Your Friends
Is it a date or are we just friends? Why not both! This week we’re talking about fucking your friends with Autostraddle Community Editor and fucking your friends expert Vanessa Friedman.
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 207: Hygiene
Ah, bodies. These sacks of meat, bones and skin that we must drag around until we come up with a better way to get through this thing called life. We knew we needed to dig into this and who better to do it with than the one and only Samantha Irby?
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“Wait, Is This a Date?” Podcast Episode 110: It’s In the Stars (and Cards)
How could we talk about queer dating without talking about astrology and tarot?
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Your Assumptions About Black, Queer Masculinity Are Erasing My Asexual Identity
As a black, masc, asexual person, I am continually sought out for my assumed hypersexuality. When people don’t get that from me, they automatically assume a flaw, forgetting there are other other forms of intimacy within reach.
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Dating Download: Three Lesbians Try Dating App Struck and Leave It to the Stars
“I was very turned on by the concept as I have made very public that I am on the hunt for a Taurus wife.”