When you shop using this guide, you’re also giving the bonus gift of support for queer indie media!

Personally, I think it’s kind of f*cked up how decadent amaretti cookies are.

Reese’s Pieces are better than plain M&Ms. You can fight me, but don’t bother because I will win.

Whether you’re single or partnered, you’re allowed to get yourself the gift of a little Valentine’s Day treat.

Happy Gay Christmas!

Maybe you, like a lot of queer people, found your community online and don’t live near your friends.

We’re gonna close out the year and wrap up our new romcom protagonists, all in one!

It can maybe seem silly to “celebrate” Valentine’s Day — you’re together all the time! But that’s why it’s important to carve out some intentional time together and also shake things up from your daily routine.

What you’ll find here is not just people writing about the ins and outs of what makes Thanksgiving the bullshit holiday that it is, but also people just writing about their cultures, about being who they are, about how they survive, what makes them keep fighting, and what gives them hope for the future.

I wouldn’t know.

The parents in our LGBTQ+ community deserve some rest and celebration.

Consider this your break from happy endings and an opportunity for some gay yuletide catharsis.

The lyric “someday soon, we all will be together, if the fates allow” is very Sappho if you know what I mean. I’ll take any opportunity to find the dyke root in any piece of media, so why not rank some holiday classics by how much lesbian energy they exude?

Any movie in which sisters reunite to kill bad boyfriends feels like Christmas to me, okay?

And what kind of toy are you bringing? 👀

Halloween costumes are traditionally scary – ghosts, goblins, political figures. Look back at the last 20 years and realize … that you frequently went an entire year wearing a costume and only got a reprieve on that one glorious October day. Terrifying.

It’s time to normalize giving sex toys as gifts, and not just to partners. Everyone’s stuck at home anyway!

Here are 16 mutual aid funds that we’re supporting this holiday season. Tell us about the ones that are closest to your heart, too!

I hid behind instruments, computers, Whitney’s voice, Prince’s guitar. I sat in front of my computer surrounded by cassettes, illegally downloading songs, awkwardly whispering “I love you more than I know how to explain and I’m scared so here’s a mixtape I made you.”

There are so many cold, cool femmes in my life that I want to make out with, but I also want to test their grit. The best way for me to see if a date passes muster is to watch a fucked up horror film that I really enjoy with them.