“So many people struggle with getting out of their head and into their body during sex.”

Advice for breakups, libido gaps, waffling on HRT, dealing with BV and more!

In which we answer the age-old queer question. How long do you wait after a breakup before hooking up with other people?

A+ Member sex questions — from spanking to long-term relationship sex — answered!

If a date doesn’t suggest a meetup, does that mean they’re not interested? Should you break up over differences in how you relate to sex and desire? What’re tips for coping with treatment resistant ADHD? And more!

Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!

Traveling while queer / trans and pregnant, PDA at Disney, tick checks…and more!

The team answers your questions about keeping those fires burning!

In which our team answers our members’ questions about the care and keeping of their skin!

Getting out there after separating from your cishet husband, mixing masculine and feminine style, asking people at the bar to kiss you on your birthday, and more!

Advice for coping with your partner’s internalized fat-phobia, wedding vows, navigating social situations and friendships as an autistic person, and more!

We have 26 whole questions on all things gender! From parenting to transition to clothing to inclusion and exclusion in queer spaces, and more!

Coping with fatphobia and QAnon relatives, hosting your first party, regifting and more!

How to stand up to straight people wedding expectations, deal with disappointment around a potential sperm donor, decide whether or not to cut off given family, know whether you should ask your ex-boss out, and more!

The AS team answers member advice questions — from dealing with workplace bullies to advocating for yourself in medical environments, and more!

The team gets into whether there’s something wrong with you if you’re not dating (no there is not), lube and Octavia Butler recommendations, taking care of your pit hair, not knowing why she broke up with you, and more!

Career anxiety, dating after sexaul assault, consent and polyamory and more!

Jumpsuits at weddings, overalls, office wear, thrifting and tailoring and more! The Autostraddle team talks FASHION, specifically your fashion, in this special themed A+ Advice Box!

A+ members get their personal advice questions answered by Autostraddle writers, twice a month in the A+ Advice Box! This week Autostraddle team answers A+ member questions about biphobia, struggling to text friends back, dealing with gender feelings and weight gain, tips for hot strap-on sex, finding that perfect masc-of-center scent and more!

Plus self-harm scars and dating, crushing hard on your married coworker, learning to celebrate yourself and more!