In which we answer the age-old queer question. How long do you wait after a breakup before hooking up with other people?

“I really wanted the movement of the novel to start with an I and end with a We.”

If a date doesn’t suggest a meetup, does that mean they’re not interested? Should you break up over differences in how you relate to sex and desire? What’re tips for coping with treatment resistant ADHD? And more!

(Bear training is also secretly for people who want to get wifed.)

“I could start a Youtube channel or a blog about disability rights and monetize it. FUCK. I don’t know how to turn it off.”

“no one gives you a free personal pan pizza when you do something you really, really don’t want to do! we live in a crumbling society”

“i just think patty melt IS a gender tbh”

Big slut energy, a friend lying about traveling, how to get reading done, dealing with getting misgendered by coworkers, and more!

“I want you to know that three different people in my life sent me this video the day it dropped. I have not been the same since.”

Traveling while queer / trans and pregnant, PDA at Disney, tick checks…and more!

In which our team answers our members’ questions about the care and keeping of their skin!

“and my agent was like what the f*ck?”

Can we open it with “The Paris Review can blow us” and then just like…not explain?

Advice for coping with your partner’s internalized fat-phobia, wedding vows, navigating social situations and friendships as an autistic person, and more!

The team gets into whether there’s something wrong with you if you’re not dating (no there is not), lube and Octavia Butler recommendations, taking care of your pit hair, not knowing why she broke up with you, and more!

“Is “Puzzle Box” central to Hellraiser?”

Career anxiety, dating after sexaul assault, consent and polyamory and more!

“LOL yeah, I lusted for those spencers sex toys so bad”

“We were just kissing ON THE MOUTH and you wanna know if we are SISTERS?!”

Jumpsuits at weddings, overalls, office wear, thrifting and tailoring and more! The Autostraddle team talks FASHION, specifically your fashion, in this special themed A+ Advice Box!