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	<title>Comments on: Yale Bans Week Celebrating Consensual Sex To Eradicate Sexual Assault</title>
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		<title>By: Yalie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yalie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 06 Dec 2011 02:19:42 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Let&#039;s mention that the boy who wrote the op-ed about how Yale glorifies a hook-up culture and that sex necessary glorifies objectification is known to be very attractive, very promiscuous, and often a little rude to his women. I&#039;m actually  baffled by his level of hypocrisy.

Nobody said the UBYC makes policy. Simply that sex week being banned is not their doing in any way/shape/form, so we should stop presenting this issue as though its some sort of success of the UBYC.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s mention that the boy who wrote the op-ed about how Yale glorifies a hook-up culture and that sex necessary glorifies objectification is known to be very attractive, very promiscuous, and often a little rude to his women. I&#8217;m actually  baffled by his level of hypocrisy.</p>
<p>Nobody said the UBYC makes policy. Simply that sex week being banned is not their doing in any way/shape/form, so we should stop presenting this issue as though its some sort of success of the UBYC.</p>
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		<title>By: anonymous</title>
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		<dc:creator>anonymous</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 17 Nov 2011 05:57:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I want to point out the falsifications and distortions that pervade this post:

1. The UBYC has sixteen members, only two of whom are in the suite that the writer is speaking of, neither of whom is full white (one is half Persian, the other is Latino). Moreover, more than 200 people have signed the UBYC petition. To speak as though UBYC represents the complaints of just these &quot;five conservative dudes&quot; and no one else is therefore a malicious distortion of fact.

2. The YDN has not given UBYC an &quot;unlimited&quot; platform. Advocates for the UBYC have written columns in the YDN and other people have rebutted them. This is a common practice at Yale and should not serve as the basis for condemning the YDN. The alternative to allowing members of UBYC to voice their opinions would be to expect the YDN to censor them, something both impossible and undesirable in an academic community that, at least theoretically, allows its students to speak their minds.

3. If the op-eds are vomit-inducing, you probably shouldn&#039;t read them every day.

4. The UBYC does not actually make university policy, it simply is making a suggestion as to how the university should change its policy. As such, it is no different from any other group, e.g. the Responsible Endowment Project, which, lacking influence itself, seeks to persuade the Yale administration to change its ways. Again, asserting that the UBYC should not be allowed to attempt to influence policy is tantamount to asserting that the University should proactively censor them and prohibit them from expressing their beliefs, which is unacceptable in a university setting.

5. That you feel &quot;unsafe as a queer, sex-positive woman&quot; makes no sense, given that (a) the UBYC has not spoken on the subject of homosexuality and (b) the UBYC is merely recommending that the University cancel Sex Week, which in no way should make anybody feel &quot;unsafe.&quot; Nice try on the victim card, though.

6. 4 of 6 of the members of the suite you are speaking of are on financial aid, so I wouldn&#039;t be so quick to brand them as &quot;privileged.&quot;

As to you making out with your lady friend in public to annoy people who have views that you disagree with, all I can say is that that is extraordinarily juvenile and is not befitting of a thinking, mature adult.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I want to point out the falsifications and distortions that pervade this post:</p>
<p>1. The UBYC has sixteen members, only two of whom are in the suite that the writer is speaking of, neither of whom is full white (one is half Persian, the other is Latino). Moreover, more than 200 people have signed the UBYC petition. To speak as though UBYC represents the complaints of just these &#8220;five conservative dudes&#8221; and no one else is therefore a malicious distortion of fact.</p>
<p>2. The YDN has not given UBYC an &#8220;unlimited&#8221; platform. Advocates for the UBYC have written columns in the YDN and other people have rebutted them. This is a common practice at Yale and should not serve as the basis for condemning the YDN. The alternative to allowing members of UBYC to voice their opinions would be to expect the YDN to censor them, something both impossible and undesirable in an academic community that, at least theoretically, allows its students to speak their minds.</p>
<p>3. If the op-eds are vomit-inducing, you probably shouldn&#8217;t read them every day.</p>
<p>4. The UBYC does not actually make university policy, it simply is making a suggestion as to how the university should change its policy. As such, it is no different from any other group, e.g. the Responsible Endowment Project, which, lacking influence itself, seeks to persuade the Yale administration to change its ways. Again, asserting that the UBYC should not be allowed to attempt to influence policy is tantamount to asserting that the University should proactively censor them and prohibit them from expressing their beliefs, which is unacceptable in a university setting.</p>
<p>5. That you feel &#8220;unsafe as a queer, sex-positive woman&#8221; makes no sense, given that (a) the UBYC has not spoken on the subject of homosexuality and (b) the UBYC is merely recommending that the University cancel Sex Week, which in no way should make anybody feel &#8220;unsafe.&#8221; Nice try on the victim card, though.</p>
<p>6. 4 of 6 of the members of the suite you are speaking of are on financial aid, so I wouldn&#8217;t be so quick to brand them as &#8220;privileged.&#8221;</p>
<p>As to you making out with your lady friend in public to annoy people who have views that you disagree with, all I can say is that that is extraordinarily juvenile and is not befitting of a thinking, mature adult.</p>
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		<title>By: idotry</title>
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		<dc:creator>idotry</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 16 Nov 2011 00:42:24 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Penetrate. Hah.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Penetrate. Hah.</p>
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		<title>By: cookedbread</title>
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		<dc:creator>cookedbread</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 22:55:11 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I think my ladyfriend&#039;s comment was verbose and weird-tone-y, but I think she was trying to say that

The Better Yale College folk take sexually-charged abstinence to a paternalistic place that even Edward Cullen didn&#039;t penetrate.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I think my ladyfriend&#8217;s comment was verbose and weird-tone-y, but I think she was trying to say that</p>
<p>The Better Yale College folk take sexually-charged abstinence to a paternalistic place that even Edward Cullen didn&#8217;t penetrate.</p>
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		<title>By: Bhan</title>
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		<dc:creator>Bhan</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 21:12:33 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So in order to combat a sexually toxic culture they have tried to ban something designed to address the real issues, because obviously talking about sex at all is the problem. Hey its not like anyone was ever raped in the Victorian period, lets all go cover some piano legs!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So in order to combat a sexually toxic culture they have tried to ban something designed to address the real issues, because obviously talking about sex at all is the problem. Hey its not like anyone was ever raped in the Victorian period, lets all go cover some piano legs!</p>
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		<title>By: Another queer Yalie!</title>
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		<dc:creator>Another queer Yalie!</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 20:39:34 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As another Yalie, I&#039;d just like to add that the Undergraduates for a Better Yale College is literally a group of 5 guys that live in my dorm, and it saddens me so much that they&#039;ve risen to any kind of spokesperson status. This is definitely not Autostraddle&#039;s fault for reporting on the situation as it appears from the outside, but the fault of the Yale Daily News for giving these 5 conservative boys an unlimited platform. Reading their daily op-eds is the most vomit-inducing experience, and the fact that anyone anywhere thinks they do/should have the power to influence university policy literally makes me feel unsafe as a queer, sex-positive woman. It&#039;s such an example of privileged white dudes feeling entitled to set the moral standards for everyone else.

PS, every time my ladyfriend and I see one of the UBYC members, we&#039;ve made sure to make out graphically in their line of vision.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As another Yalie, I&#8217;d just like to add that the Undergraduates for a Better Yale College is literally a group of 5 guys that live in my dorm, and it saddens me so much that they&#8217;ve risen to any kind of spokesperson status. This is definitely not Autostraddle&#8217;s fault for reporting on the situation as it appears from the outside, but the fault of the Yale Daily News for giving these 5 conservative boys an unlimited platform. Reading their daily op-eds is the most vomit-inducing experience, and the fact that anyone anywhere thinks they do/should have the power to influence university policy literally makes me feel unsafe as a queer, sex-positive woman. It&#8217;s such an example of privileged white dudes feeling entitled to set the moral standards for everyone else.</p>
<p>PS, every time my ladyfriend and I see one of the UBYC members, we&#8217;ve made sure to make out graphically in their line of vision.</p>
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		<title>By: YaleQueer</title>
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		<dc:creator>YaleQueer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 17:26:28 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a Yalie, I can affirm that Levin has not banned Sex Week--and also as a Yalie, I wish pieces would stop appearing in such wonderful outlets as Autostraddle and Jezebel which criticize Yale for something that hasn&#039;t actually happened. I understand completely the ideological objections, but this piece has a false premise.

For more full information on the situation at Yale, please read this YDN article by the Executive Directors for Sex Week at Yale: http://www.yaledailynews.com/news/2011/nov/14/cho-and-holmes-lets-talk-about-sex/]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a Yalie, I can affirm that Levin has not banned Sex Week&#8211;and also as a Yalie, I wish pieces would stop appearing in such wonderful outlets as Autostraddle and Jezebel which criticize Yale for something that hasn&#8217;t actually happened. I understand completely the ideological objections, but this piece has a false premise.</p>
<p>For more full information on the situation at Yale, please read this YDN article by the Executive Directors for Sex Week at Yale: <a href="http://www.yaledailynews.com/news/2011/nov/14/cho-and-holmes-lets-talk-about-sex/" rel="nofollow">http://www.yaledailynews.com/news/2011/nov/14/cho-and-holmes-lets-talk-about-sex/</a></p>
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		<title>By: Roxy2</title>
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		<dc:creator>Roxy2</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 17:17:37 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&quot;Yalie&quot; - that&#039;s adorbs.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8220;Yalie&#8221; &#8211; that&#8217;s adorbs.</p>
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		<title>By: Yalie</title>
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		<dc:creator>Yalie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 16:59:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m pretty sure President Levin (president of Yale) hasn&#039;t decided anything yet. The committee suggested that Yale ban Sex Week, but no one&#039;s actually banned it yet. He&#039;s waiting to see what the actual proposal for events is like.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m pretty sure President Levin (president of Yale) hasn&#8217;t decided anything yet. The committee suggested that Yale ban Sex Week, but no one&#8217;s actually banned it yet. He&#8217;s waiting to see what the actual proposal for events is like.</p>
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		<title>By: birobot</title>
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		<dc:creator>birobot</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 15:52:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This makes me sad.  If there are problems with sexual assault and pornography or anything in between, wouldn&#039;t Sex Week be the perfect time to discuss them?  Why not talk about problems and issues instead of banning others from loving and learning and living their lives with a little fun?  This just sends the message that when things make us uncomfortable, we lock them in a box instead of trying to figure out what&#039;s really wrong and fix it.  The sad thing is there are so many wonderful things you listed that get talked about during Sex Week that people don&#039;t usually get to have public discourse on.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This makes me sad.  If there are problems with sexual assault and pornography or anything in between, wouldn&#8217;t Sex Week be the perfect time to discuss them?  Why not talk about problems and issues instead of banning others from loving and learning and living their lives with a little fun?  This just sends the message that when things make us uncomfortable, we lock them in a box instead of trying to figure out what&#8217;s really wrong and fix it.  The sad thing is there are so many wonderful things you listed that get talked about during Sex Week that people don&#8217;t usually get to have public discourse on.</p>
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		<title>By: Maria</title>
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		<dc:creator>Maria</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 15:47:52 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I wish they&#039;d change their advertising, as it kind of makes &#039;Sex Week&#039; look like a cheap club night, but they shouldn&#039;t have been banned. This sounds like a great idea - I wish we&#039;d have something like it at my uni.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I wish they&#8217;d change their advertising, as it kind of makes &#8216;Sex Week&#8217; look like a cheap club night, but they shouldn&#8217;t have been banned. This sounds like a great idea &#8211; I wish we&#8217;d have something like it at my uni.</p>
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		<title>By: Sweet</title>
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		<dc:creator>Sweet</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Nov 2011 15:05:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[As a Yalie, all I can say is WTF.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>As a Yalie, all I can say is WTF.</p>
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