<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" xmlns:sy="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/syndication/" > <channel><title>Comments on: Will New Jersey Get Gay Marriage? Magic 8 Ball Says &quot;Outlook Not So Good.&quot;</title> <atom:link href="http://www.autostraddle.com/will-new-jersey-get-gay-marriage-magic-8-ball-says-outlook-not-so-good/feed/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml" /><link>http://www.autostraddle.com/will-new-jersey-get-gay-marriage-magic-8-ball-says-outlook-not-so-good/</link> <description>The World&#039;s Most Popular Independently-Owned Website for Lesbian, Bisexual and Queer Women</description> <lastBuildDate>Mon, 13 Feb 2012 11:29:18 +0000</lastBuildDate> <sy:updatePeriod>hourly</sy:updatePeriod> <sy:updateFrequency>1</sy:updateFrequency> <generator>http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3.1</generator> <item><title>By: irisita69</title><link>http://www.autostraddle.com/will-new-jersey-get-gay-marriage-magic-8-ball-says-outlook-not-so-good/#comment-20832</link> <dc:creator>irisita69</dc:creator> <pubDate>Sun, 29 Nov 2009 21:08:47 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=21246#comment-20832</guid> <description>Marriage should be cancelled! why do gay people want that horrible institution? :)</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Marriage should be cancelled!<br /> why do gay people want that horrible institution? <img src="http://mycdn.theexcitantgroup.netdna-cdn.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif?9d6e10" alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /></p><div class="CommentRating"> <img style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: none;" id="up-20832" src="http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-content/plugins/comment-rating-pro/images/5_14_gray_up.png?9d6e10" alt="Thumb up"  /> <span id="karma-20832-up" style="font-size:12px; color:#333333; padding-right:10px;">0</span></div>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Carmen</title><link>http://www.autostraddle.com/will-new-jersey-get-gay-marriage-magic-8-ball-says-outlook-not-so-good/#comment-20508</link> <dc:creator>Carmen</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 10:31:32 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=21246#comment-20508</guid> <description>Let&#039;s imagine together.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Let&#8217;s imagine together.</p><div class="CommentRating"> <img style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: none;" id="up-20508" src="http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-content/plugins/comment-rating-pro/images/5_14_gray_up.png?9d6e10" alt="Thumb up"  /> <span id="karma-20508-up" style="font-size:12px; color:#333333; padding-right:10px;">0</span></div>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: stacey</title><link>http://www.autostraddle.com/will-new-jersey-get-gay-marriage-magic-8-ball-says-outlook-not-so-good/#comment-20492</link> <dc:creator>stacey</dc:creator> <pubDate>Thu, 26 Nov 2009 02:02:18 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=21246#comment-20492</guid> <description>Just because we&#039;ve lost in other states doesn&#039;t mean we should give up. I feel like that&#039;s when your dog gets hit by a car and it&#039;s still alive and you leave it on the street. Also I feel like we&#039;re really close (like with Maine) and someone is going to vote for gay marriage someday. I mean Massachusetts hasn&#039;t fallen apart yet so I think that&#039;s a good indication that EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE FINE if the gheyz get married.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Just because we&#8217;ve lost in other states doesn&#8217;t mean we should give up. I feel like that&#8217;s when your dog gets hit by a car and it&#8217;s still alive and you leave it on the street. Also I feel like we&#8217;re really close (like with Maine) and someone is going to vote for gay marriage someday. I mean Massachusetts hasn&#8217;t fallen apart yet so I think that&#8217;s a good indication that EVERYTHING IS GOING TO BE FINE if the gheyz get married.</p><div class="CommentRating"> <img style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: none;" id="up-20492" src="http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-content/plugins/comment-rating-pro/images/5_14_gray_up.png?9d6e10" alt="Thumb up"  /> <span id="karma-20492-up" style="font-size:12px; color:#333333; padding-right:10px;">0</span></div>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: riese</title><link>http://www.autostraddle.com/will-new-jersey-get-gay-marriage-magic-8-ball-says-outlook-not-so-good/#comment-20485</link> <dc:creator>riese</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 22:05:00 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=21246#comment-20485</guid> <description>I feel like the point they&#039;re making is somewhat valid -- that if straight people can&#039;t get civil unions, than civil unions aren&#039;t really &quot;everything about marriage except the word,&quot; you know? They are clearly &quot;less than.&quot; Unless it&#039;s really just about them instead of about us.  But I like to imagine that they&#039;re doing it for the gays. I imagine that a lot.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I feel like the point they&#8217;re making is somewhat valid &#8212; that if straight people can&#8217;t get civil unions, than civil unions aren&#8217;t really &#8220;everything about marriage except the word,&#8221; you know? They are clearly &#8220;less than.&#8221; Unless it&#8217;s really just about them instead of about us.  But I like to imagine that they&#8217;re doing it for the gays. I imagine that a lot.</p><div class="CommentRating"> <img style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: none;" id="up-20485" src="http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-content/plugins/comment-rating-pro/images/5_14_gray_up.png?9d6e10" alt="Thumb up"  /> <span id="karma-20485-up" style="font-size:12px; color:#333333; padding-right:10px;">0</span></div>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Emily</title><link>http://www.autostraddle.com/will-new-jersey-get-gay-marriage-magic-8-ball-says-outlook-not-so-good/#comment-20480</link> <dc:creator>Emily</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 21:22:12 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=21246#comment-20480</guid> <description>That music video made me happy but also nostalgic for New York.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>That music video made me happy but also nostalgic for New York.</p><div class="CommentRating"> <img style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: none;" id="up-20480" src="http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-content/plugins/comment-rating-pro/images/5_14_gray_up.png?9d6e10" alt="Thumb up"  /> <span id="karma-20480-up" style="font-size:12px; color:#333333; padding-right:10px;">0</span></div>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: Carmen</title><link>http://www.autostraddle.com/will-new-jersey-get-gay-marriage-magic-8-ball-says-outlook-not-so-good/#comment-20471</link> <dc:creator>Carmen</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:49:42 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=21246#comment-20471</guid> <description>Nope, you&#039;re not. I agree. I prefer the we-won&#039;t-get-married-until-everyone-can thing better. However, I really liked this quote &quot;In a democratic state, all institutions should be open to all people&quot; and I think that&#039;s a good approach to follow.At least it brings more visibility and that can&#039;t be a bad thing. And really, the argument of having institutions open to all people BECAUSE of the fact that there&#039;s a democracy thing going on? So true.</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Nope, you&#8217;re not. I agree. I prefer the we-won&#8217;t-get-married-until-everyone-can thing better. However, I really liked this quote &#8220;In a democratic state, all institutions should be open to all people&#8221; and I think that&#8217;s a good approach to follow.</p><p>At least it brings more visibility and that can&#8217;t be a bad thing. And really, the argument of having institutions open to all people BECAUSE of the fact that there&#8217;s a democracy thing going on? So true.</p><div class="CommentRating"> <img style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: none;" id="up-20471" src="http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-content/plugins/comment-rating-pro/images/5_14_gray_up.png?9d6e10" alt="Thumb up"  /> <span id="karma-20471-up" style="font-size:12px; color:#333333; padding-right:10px;">0</span></div>]]></content:encoded> </item> <item><title>By: alphafemme</title><link>http://www.autostraddle.com/will-new-jersey-get-gay-marriage-magic-8-ball-says-outlook-not-so-good/#comment-20470</link> <dc:creator>alphafemme</dc:creator> <pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 18:31:16 +0000</pubDate> <guid isPermaLink="false">http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=21246#comment-20470</guid> <description>okay... I get that the straight couple in Britain are trying to make a point, or whatever, and be supportive of gay rights... but it just seems SO RIDICULOUS to me. to talk about civil partnerships as a &quot;right&quot; that gay people have that straight people don&#039;t is frankly kind of insulting. I mean, am I crazy?</description> <content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>okay&#8230; I get that the straight couple in Britain are trying to make a point, or whatever, and be supportive of gay rights&#8230; but it just seems SO RIDICULOUS to me. to talk about civil partnerships as a &#8220;right&#8221; that gay people have that straight people don&#8217;t is frankly kind of insulting. I mean, am I crazy?</p><div class="CommentRating"> <img style="padding: 0px; margin: 0px; border: none;" id="up-20470" src="http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-content/plugins/comment-rating-pro/images/5_14_gray_up.png?9d6e10" alt="Thumb up"  /> <span id="karma-20470-up" style="font-size:12px; color:#333333; padding-right:10px;">0</span></div>]]></content:encoded> </item> </channel> </rss>
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