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	<title>Comments on: Unofficially Official: There&#039;s More Than One Way to Have a Lesbian Relationship</title>
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		<title>By: Frankie</title>
		<link>http://www.autostraddle.com/unofficially-official-theres-more-than-one-way-to-have-a-lesbian-relationship-85058/#comment-259475</link>
		<dc:creator>Frankie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 17 Nov 2012 15:43:40 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Darnit! Turns out I&#039;m just a creep. But honestly, with this girl, who wouldn&#039;t be? amirite?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Darnit! Turns out I&#8217;m just a creep. But honestly, with this girl, who wouldn&#8217;t be? amirite?</p>
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		<title>By: lis</title>
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		<dc:creator>lis</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 14 Oct 2012 13:57:57 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Has anyone had/know any lesbians who have ever had a successful friends with benefits situation? Where it doesn&#039;t get complicated and no one gets jealous/hurt/has feelings for the other person. How?!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Has anyone had/know any lesbians who have ever had a successful friends with benefits situation? Where it doesn&#8217;t get complicated and no one gets jealous/hurt/has feelings for the other person. How?!</p>
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		<title>By: KV211</title>
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		<dc:creator>KV211</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 22 May 2012 06:44:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#039;m really into this girl who has a kid...I&#039;m starting to get super attached to him and her. She has a boyfriend who she lives with, but she and I like eachother a lot. Any advice?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;m really into this girl who has a kid&#8230;I&#8217;m starting to get super attached to him and her. She has a boyfriend who she lives with, but she and I like eachother a lot. Any advice?</p>
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		<title>By: Marsha</title>
		<link>http://www.autostraddle.com/unofficially-official-theres-more-than-one-way-to-have-a-lesbian-relationship-85058/#comment-160581</link>
		<dc:creator>Marsha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 Dec 2011 19:04:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What&#039;s wrong with a committed relationship other then the word &quot;committed&quot;... is a double entendre ever more appropriate?]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What&#8217;s wrong with a committed relationship other then the word &#8220;committed&#8221;&#8230; is a double entendre ever more appropriate?</p>
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		<title>By: Kat</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kat</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 27 Nov 2011 07:15:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You were straight before your first girlfriend?? Wow, you should definitely write something about that (if you haven&#039;t already), because I like a girl who I think may be able to turn gay with a little persuasion (no seriously, she&#039;s that kind of person, I&#039;m not just thinking wishfully).]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You were straight before your first girlfriend?? Wow, you should definitely write something about that (if you haven&#8217;t already), because I like a girl who I think may be able to turn gay with a little persuasion (no seriously, she&#8217;s that kind of person, I&#8217;m not just thinking wishfully).</p>
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		<title>By: Henri</title>
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		<dc:creator>Henri</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 18 Nov 2011 17:06:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Flow chart could realy do with a bit which says: Stalk her twitter and/or tumblr an see if she mentions meeting up with her girlfriend (or whatever) when you know she met up with you. Thats how I found out that my current girlfriend considered us officialy together, when I still though she only saw us as a casual relationship (im used to people being less interested in me than i am in them.
Other than that.... I&#039;v deffinatly got several friends who are going to be given a printed coppy of flowchart.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Flow chart could realy do with a bit which says: Stalk her twitter and/or tumblr an see if she mentions meeting up with her girlfriend (or whatever) when you know she met up with you. Thats how I found out that my current girlfriend considered us officialy together, when I still though she only saw us as a casual relationship (im used to people being less interested in me than i am in them.<br />
Other than that&#8230;. I&#8217;v deffinatly got several friends who are going to be given a printed coppy of flowchart.</p>
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		<title>By: Cali</title>
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		<dc:creator>Cali</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 05 Sep 2011 04:37:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[What would anything interesting be without a bit of complication? Only created by the human mind of course, but created none the less.. and doesn&#039;t anything and everything have a perfect(or imperfect, however you see it) reason? Why label life? What is alive, what is dead sort of thing. Relationships are there. Dig it.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>What would anything interesting be without a bit of complication? Only created by the human mind of course, but created none the less.. and doesn&#8217;t anything and everything have a perfect(or imperfect, however you see it) reason? Why label life? What is alive, what is dead sort of thing. Relationships are there. Dig it.</p>
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		<title>By: Sharks</title>
		<link>http://www.autostraddle.com/unofficially-official-theres-more-than-one-way-to-have-a-lesbian-relationship-85058/#comment-114366</link>
		<dc:creator>Sharks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2011 04:48:58 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So...Type I Open Relationship and Type II Open Relationship, huh? 

Does that mean they kind of work like diabetes, then?



jk! :)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So&#8230;Type I Open Relationship and Type II Open Relationship, huh? </p>
<p>Does that mean they kind of work like diabetes, then?</p>
<p>jk! <img src='http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Sharks</title>
		<link>http://www.autostraddle.com/unofficially-official-theres-more-than-one-way-to-have-a-lesbian-relationship-85058/#comment-114363</link>
		<dc:creator>Sharks</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 18 Jun 2011 04:45:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This was one of the most level-headed disagreements/discussions I think I&#039;ve ever seen on the internet. That definitely deserves a giant, gold-plated comment award of epic win. Thank you for restoring my sanity for the day.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This was one of the most level-headed disagreements/discussions I think I&#8217;ve ever seen on the internet. That definitely deserves a giant, gold-plated comment award of epic win. Thank you for restoring my sanity for the day.</p>
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		<title>By: sundancer</title>
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		<dc:creator>sundancer</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 29 May 2011 07:53:44 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[euw, monogomy - save yourself!

jk :)

but i totally love this flow chart. great job - wish i&#039;d found it sooner!]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>euw, monogomy &#8211; save yourself!</p>
<p>jk <img src='http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>but i totally love this flow chart. great job &#8211; wish i&#8217;d found it sooner!</p>
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		<title>By: Diana</title>
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		<dc:creator>Diana</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 Apr 2011 00:17:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Ew. Monogamy.

^
:)]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Ew. Monogamy.</p>
<p>^<br />
 <img src='http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Nutmeg</title>
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		<dc:creator>Nutmeg</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 28 Apr 2011 23:13:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Is it bad if my current long-term relationship ended up with not &quot;Ew, Monogamy&quot;, ? ;)

It wavered between friends and friends with benefits. Haha.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Is it bad if my current long-term relationship ended up with not &#8220;Ew, Monogamy&#8221;, ? <img src='http://www.autostraddle.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_wink.gif' alt=';)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>It wavered between friends and friends with benefits. Haha.</p>
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