Comments on: New York Mag's Sex Diary Features Lesbian With Dirty Dreams, Lots Of Exes http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/ The World's Most Popular Independently-Owned Website for Lesbian, Bisexual and Queer Women Mon, 20 May 2013 16:24:19 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.5.1 By: Jerry http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-203943 Jerry Fri, 25 May 2012 08:43:29 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-203943 ahah, some “fucker’s”…
I also

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]]> By: Alex http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-203211 Alex Wed, 23 May 2012 12:56:34 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-203211 Does anyone else hate the word “lover”?

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]]> By: ClittyMcLabia http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202825 ClittyMcLabia Tue, 22 May 2012 17:21:16 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202825 Riese, how do I thank you for posting Sapphic non-Autostraddle articles?!

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]]> By: Susan http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202658 Susan Tue, 22 May 2012 08:21:27 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202658 So this is what lesbian bed death sounds like?

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]]> By: b http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202505 b Tue, 22 May 2012 03:21:12 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202505 love that poem!!!

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]]> By: Interesting http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202472 Interesting Tue, 22 May 2012 02:45:45 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202472 Actually, I felt a little bit enlightened after reading the diary. So, sue me, I’m super inexperienced…but it was a nice reminder that sometimes our partners go through tough times, and we have to be patient with them, and kind. The sex slowed with a previous gf of mine and that feeling when she doesn’t want the favor returned…it’s so unsatisfying. It’s nice to here it echoed by another woman, no matter how she explained it. I wasn’t nearly as kind ><

Also, it helps me come to terms with jealousy better, because it's a reminder that people do fantasize about exes and do have crushes and these things are all normal and don't diminish your love for the person you come home to.

So, kinda sad, but I have faith things will pick back up for them :)

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]]> By: riese http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202470 riese Tue, 22 May 2012 02:45:21 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202470 i considered the sex diaries book, but i feel like i’ve already read all the queer ones 50 times each

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]]> By: riese http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202468 riese Tue, 22 May 2012 02:44:46 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202468 thank you, i try

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]]> By: Kels http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202417 Kels Tue, 22 May 2012 01:38:21 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202417 “I stay up and watch mediocre lesbian porn on Pornhub.com and get off in less than ten minutes.”
Yup.
Also, this was way better than “The Single Bicoastal Lesbian Smoking Lots of Weed With Two Gal Pals.”

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]]> By: taylor http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202407 taylor Tue, 22 May 2012 01:16:25 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202407 did anyone else read the Sex Diaries book? something of a dearth of queer women, but still a pretty mind-expanding read for anyone considering non-monogamy. or anyone considering how the fuck to make a relationship work in general

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]]> By: Laura http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202399 Laura Tue, 22 May 2012 00:59:07 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202399 diary: meh
stephen dunn: !

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]]> By: Abbey http://www.autostraddle.com/new-york-mags-sex-diary-features-lesbian-with-dirty-dreams-138649/#comment-202395 Abbey Tue, 22 May 2012 00:55:26 +0000 http://www.autostraddle.com/?p=138649#comment-202395 I don’t really like NYM’s Sex Diaries.
I do really like how you turned this into a Stephen Dunn post.

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