The Basics

Name busy
Age 30
Location

Portland, Oregon

About Me Been fully out of the closet for over twelve years. I love being the femme that surprises people with my overt queerness but I hate the invisibility that comes whenever I am not making out with my wife in the public eye. Have wandered through five different states and over twenty different addresses since high school. Just graduated from college and got my first "grown-up" job. I am fascinated with and passionate about human sexuality, gender politics, gay and lesbian issues, women's history… I am extremely and radically open-minded and I question almost everything. My wife and I are in our third year of marriage and are contemplating how to embark on the baby path soon…
Check All That Apply

Lesbian, Queer, Femme

Relationship Status Married, Domestically Partnered
Religion/Spirituality/Philosophy

Christian

What I Like

Favorite Writers

Jane Green. Plum Sykes. J.K. Rowling.

Favorite Books

The Harry Potter series, The Nanny Diaries

Favorite Queer Books

The Femme Mystique, The Whole Lesbian Sex Book, Chely Wright's "Like Me"

Favorite TV Shows

Happy Endings, Cougar Town, Friends, Modern Family, Pretty Little Liars

Favorite Music

Miranda Lambert, Pink, Sugarland, Britney Spears, No Doubt, Ani DiFranco, Fiona Apple, Sarah McLachlan

Favorite Sandwich

A grilled cheese with tomatoes and fresco sauce (from Steak N Shake)

Favorite Quotes

"I don't always feel lucky but I'm smart enough to try." Ani DiFranco

Who I Am

Are You Out To Your.... Everybody