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Hey Queer College Girls, We Need You and Your Input

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Hello! It has come to our attention that many of you here at Autostraddle are "in college" or "going to college." Furthermore, many of us here on Team Autostraddle graduated from college before Shane got invented and don't know what campus life is like these days.

We're in the process of putting together one of those fantastic mega-posts jam-packed with information and we need your help!

We've gathered a lot of material from our own friends & family, but we've got some holes.

Please only respond to this call if you are:

1) Involved in the gay scene on your campus.

2) Are currently attending [x] school or have graduated within the last two years

3) Out at school as queer/lesbian/bisexual

THERE ARE NO EXCEPTIONS TO ANY OF THESE RULES

Questions to answer/address:

- How safe/friendly the environment is for LGBTs

- How safe/friendly the environment is for lesbians/queer women specifically

- What the dating scene is like.

- What the overall social scene is like.

- Is there a GSA or other gay club? How is it?

- What gay events/clubs/situations would you recommend to a new queer on campus?

- Is the town/city/village your school is located in gay-friendly?

- Please include any relavant URLS or phone numbers

- Any other insider info you'd like to share.

We reserve the right to edit your piece for style and clarity and will publish without your name unless specifically asked to use your name. If we get more than one submission from the same school, we'll try to edit them into one coherent perspective.

So, schools we still need people to write about:

- Smith
- Bryn Mawr
- Wellesley
- Northwestern
- Swarthmore
- University of Washington
- SFSU
- Vassar
- Carleton College
- Brown
- Ohio State
- SUNY Purchase
- Grinell
- University of Oregon - Eugene
- Hampshire
- University of Michigan - Ann Arbor
- UC - Berkeley
- UC- Santa Cruz
- UCLA
- Concordia (Canada)
- Sarah Lawrence
- University of Pennsylvania
- Oberlin
- Penn State
- University of Massachusetts - Amherst
- Indiana - Bloomington
- Duke
- University of Texas
- Yale

We have already received responses for the schools highlighted in red. Thank you!

Email your 1-2 paragraphs

to

BREN [AT] AUTOSTRADDLE DOT COM. 

If your school isn't on this list and you feel like it should be, email us and ask if you can write about it. It's likely it's not on this list because we've already got somebody writing about it, but if not then we'll give you the green light.

100 responses to “Hey Queer College Girls, We Need You and Your Input”

  1. Julie

    Do you want any info on Canadian universities/colleges at all?

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    1. Ali

      yeah let’s see some canadian schools reppin!

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      1. Grace_B

        U of Manitoba bitchez/bastardz/otherwise identified fuckers!

        I htink I’m too drunk for autostraddle

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  2. Leslie

    What about Translyvania University? Small liberal arts school in KY.

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    1. See

      Woo, Pioneers! ;)

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      1. Leslie

        LUV ‘EM

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    2. RLV

      I go to UK! :)

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      1. Leslie

        look at all these lexington queers!

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    3. doubtfire18

      I go to Lindsey Wilson College, also in KY :)

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  3. Tyler

    do you need input from Lewis & Clark College?

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    1. Peri

      Hey, I go there! And it is pretty queer.

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  4. Stephanie

    Or UK universities? Heh :]

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    1. Evidux

      Seconded.

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    2. Marlena

      I wrote/emailed one for Edinburgh!

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      1. BioGal

        I can write one for St Andrews, too!

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  5. Elissa Marcelle

    I can’t really speak to the queer dating scene at my college (culinary school in Vermont) but I can say that it has been an awesome and accepting place when I came out as trans*. All the teachers and staff have been amazing and they even allowed me to change my nametag to reflect my chosen name! They allowed me to live on an all girls floor in the dorms, and none of the other students have ever had any problems, they’ve all just taken me at face value!

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  6. pyrrhic

    Northwestern got ittttt

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    1. Alex

      Northwestern, I’m on it too

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  7. Krissy

    WHAT WHY NO BU

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    1. Rose

      Some of the ones that aren’t on there are because AS writers area already covering them.

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      1. Rose

        “are” not “area”! God, I hate typos.

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        1. Krissy

          haha totally fine, typos happen. Also thanks, I figured as much but felt the need to make the obligatory all-caps rage comment nonetheless. :P

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  8. Creatrix Tiara

    Anything about australia?

    Also what counts as “being involved in the gay scene”? I was more of a super-busy social butterfly and I had friends who were involved, but as an international student the stakes were different – it was quite intimidating & sometimes alienating, and also there have been students who lost government scholarships because someone outed them, so people have had to be discreet.

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    1. marxi

      I go to Monash University in Melbourne. I’d be happy to write something about it if the editor approves?

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      1. Nys

        Monash represent!

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        1. dizzy

          I can totally think of some sexy Monash queers, so lucky you :)

          There do seem to be a lot of us around here – the Aussiestraddle group is good proof – and it would nice to see the non-American world represented.

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    2. dizzy

      what that’s crazy 0.0 what was the reason given for revoking the scholarships???

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      1. Creatrix Tiara

        It was a Malaysian Government scholarship – the gov is majorly conservative & homophobic. One student got reported as trans (by her ex!) – scholarship was revoked, she had to come back immediately.there are others who end up being more discreet – not being in photos, going stealth, and so on.

        That’s partly why I wasn’t super active with queer stuff in uni – I wasn’t sure what the bounds of my student visa were. Turns out the visa itself is pretty open, but I had a malaysian citizenship app pending (SINCE BIRTH) and I still had to be careful.

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  9. jen

    gonna be a freshman, but if i could, i’d be all about reppin’ university of north texas, ha.

    but there is this:
    http://www.queerty.com/university-of-north-texas-says-no-to-gay-homecoming-couples-20091005/

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  10. jen

    I mean, I know it was a while ago, but still. Things haven’t changed too much up here.

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    1. Reese

      I have a (queer) friend that teaches at UNT. Do you know what you want to major in?

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      1. Reese

        fucking typo bullshit.

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  11. annie

    I actually gasped in excitement at this post/my college being on the list.

    I don’t think I’m qualified to write about it, because I won’t start school until this august, but I will be attending Grinnell. Still, I just wanted to add Go Pioneers!

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  12. Flic

    Yeh, need anything on Aussie universities? I could cover the University of Queensland.

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    1. Creatrix Tiara

      Oh hey! I studied at QUT but lived in International House for a while. I’m still close hulu, at Guyatt Park :)

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      1. Flic

        Pfft, QUT… haha jokes. I live at Emmanuel! Poor IH (they flooded and have been closed for the past semester), at least some of them are coming back this coming semester lol

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        1. Creatrix Tiara

          Yeah we heard! sadface, the flooded rooms were brand new too!
          Good to hear they’re coming back.

          At least QUT *has* a queer space ;)

          (you wouldn’t happen to know a redhead named casey would you?)

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          1. Katelyn

            I was on exchange at UQ!
            Small world.

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          2. Flic

            Whoa… Casey Northam by any chance? haha UQ has a queer space too!

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  13. riese

    hi! any questions about what schools we’re including should be directed to Bren via email, as discussed in the post!

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  14. dragon_snap

    Disclaimer: I am a cis queer woman, attending a Canadian university.

    Um, what if you are a straight trans or trans* woman? Can you still submit something about your university? I guess if you had no cultural queer affiliation (that is, you didn’t really identify with / participate in queer culture, which is totally ok, obviously) you might not be ‘qualified’ to address things like the dating scene or the social scene. HOWEVER, it seems you would still have tons of important and relevant info about ‘How safe/friendly the environment is for LGBTs’, especially the T part of that – but also other parts, not least because I think that transphobia probably directly impacts lots of genderqueer folks, as well as masculine-of-centre women and feminine-of-centre men (and none of these categories are mutually exclusive either!).

    Maybe you should have a separate about post about colleges addressing the general safety and ease of daily life for of trans and trans* folks there? Examples of relevant information, in point form to prevent a ‘wall-o-text’ situation:

    - how easy or difficult it is to get listed as your preferred name on attendance sheets, at the registrar’s office etc.

    - related: how frequently do TA’s accidentally or ‘accidentally’ out folks during attendance at tutorials; tests are also sometimes printed with each person’s name on it, so I imagine that this could be a problem-area as well

    - how easy/difficult it is to get into single-gender housing of your actual gender in residence

    - how many unisex and/or single locking bathrooms and change-rooms there are (including in residence and at the residence athletic facilities)

    - whether the campus Women’s Centre (or equivalent) is trans inclusive (that is, inclusive of trans women in their women-only space, if they have one; as well as being trans inclusive in general)

    - whether the Queer Resource Centre (or equivalent) is trans inclusive (not only just nominally but actively working on trans-specific causes and/or events, depending on how focused the centre is on activism and/or social events)

    - and I’m sure a tons of other things I am forgetting and/or am ignorant about

    As a final note, I just wanted to assert that I think the current format/conditions of inclusion are set up to elicit really important information, and I’m really glad that you’re doing this. I just think that for many queer and straight women (that is, those that are trans, trans*, genderqueer, masculine-of-centre, etc.) there are a few potential gaps in the information, that I think are important to address, and might actually be easier to address in a separate post.

    Love,
    Alice

    ps: I would suggest that for the purposes of this proposed separate post you would not need to be out to the general college population as trans or trans* to submit info.

    pps: I second Julie’s question about Canadian universities and whether you want info on them.

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    1. Sweet

      I agree with all of this as excellent ideas all

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  15. B'alam

    Oh, SFSU! I just graduated from there in May. I’ll be sending in an email.

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    1. naiiimah

      you went to SFSU? I go to there currently. what was your major?

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      1. B'alam

        Awesome. I was Raza Studies and Global Peace Studies. How about yourself?

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        1. Toby

          I totally just misread and thought that you got a major in “Awesome.”

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        2. naiiimah

          I’m in a limbo between staying a Mechanical Engineer and my probable switch to Computer Science :/

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  16. Stormy

    University of West Georgia isn’t on there? I would imagine because we’re rather small and not as well known?

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  17. Nora

    This would be really useful! Just any info on gay life in/around NYC/Brooklyn would be awesome, I’m going to Pratt this fall and kinda nervous about how I will fit into the bubble (esp. because all I’ve heard about NY lesbians is that they drink a lot and I’m not much for drinking)

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    1. craftaddict

      I’m going to FIT in the fall (I visited Pratt, though, it is so beautiful and I’m jealous you get to study there)!

      The idea of navigating the NYC gay scene is intimidating, so I’m also hungry for information…

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  18. luna

    we need an entire queer life/college section with multiple writers and with multiple experiences.

    you know how seventeen has the Freshman 15? Well we need this for MULTIPLE PEOPLE (college, university, freshies-seniors, etc.)

    Yeah,
    we should have that and I’m all on board for helping organize it, if that’s the next concern; please do holla.

    -Luna (who’s always too damn lazy to log in)

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  19. Kerrie

    If not already being done, I’d love to see some write-ups on schools not always known to be gay friendly if there’s anyone on here who attends. Texas A&M, Washington State, etc. Inquiring minds who are interested in majors most often found at rural colleges want to know. :)

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    1. Rose

      We’re not just doing gay-friendly ones, basically any of them that AS readers and writers attend.

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  20. Kylie

    Hey Autostraddle. I attend Concord Univ. in Southern WV and was a victim of a gay related “hate” crime. I had someone put dyke outside of my door and would love to write a piece about gay tolerance and presence at the University.

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  21. sparklemcsparkleface

    gahhh!!!! im a junior in high school and I’m considering more than half of these schools! this is so exciting gomg! please write a lot and stuff! also THANK YOU WHOEVER THOUGHT OF THIS!!

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  22. Kitty

    Obie gayelles represent! I’ll email a paragraph or two this evening.

    Any other oberlin girls here?

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    1. Rachel

      ObieQueers!! I didn’t know there were any others on Autostraddle.. :D

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      1. Missy

        i grew up in Oberlin, OH. my mom still works at the college. i grew up with lots of stories of students sitting in for civil rights, etc. (i remember all the crazy/fun paint jobs y’all did on the campus rocks). mom once told me abt. dorms that had uni-sex bathrooms to be inclusive of trans* students. i was inspired by the students that went to Oberlin.

        i eventually went to Ohio Wesleyan (go OWU! -ok for lgbt folk, though i wasn’t out in college).

        mom still seemed surprised. #wtf

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    2. elmcee

      I’m another Oberlin lady! That makes at least 3!

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  23. Alice

    Smith college doesn’t need a gay club. Smith college IS a gay club.

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    1. Rachel

      haha that’s exactly what I said about Oberlin

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      1. Intern Grace

        Mmm, Oberlin.

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    2. Mer

      A fantastic one at that!

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    3. PaperCut

      And can I also just say that the front page picture for this article is totally a picture of Smith convocation!

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      1. Kenzie

        Yup, definitely Smith convocation! Unfortunately I didn’t realize that earplugs were a necessity…

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  24. kaj

    I definitely concur with the questions about trans* info. Also, do y’all need anything about the University of Minnesota Morris? ‘Cause it’s super queer and I know a bunch of people who read Autostraddle who’re students there. I’m the co-chair of the GLBT(etc) group on campus, so I’d be happy to write about it! :)

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  25. Toby

    I’m enrolling in Southern Oregon University in the fall, and JFDKSLAJFDSL U of O Eugene is just so close and yet still not my school. And I’m still not attending; that comes in September. GAH. I would have loved to do this :/

    Secondarily:
    Someone INVENTED Shane? They need a prize of some sort.

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    1. discospider

      I’m going to U of O Eugene probably. Wacky! Do you live in Oregon?

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    2. kd15

      You’ll be about 15 miles from me when you get to SOU.

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  26. jifener25

    I’m going to texas tech in the fall, I’m already moved here and am hanging out with derby girls and the like, and have signed up with the GSA. but i’m not started yet so I dont think i can contribute much :(

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  27. SuperNaye

    Would you guys want info on schools in Alabama? I know the south gets a bad rap and Alabama isn’t at the top of the list, but I can honestly say that the state has come a long way. Also, I was recently at a conference in a room full of queers from allover Alabama :)

    Sweet home Alabama!!! (sorry, southern girl)

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  28. ashleigh

    what about CUNY schools? i used to attend college of staten island and the GSA was awesome, didn’t stay there long enough to learn more because i transferred…but yeah, what about community colleges?

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  29. Aria

    I go to The University of the Arts, so it’s pretty freaking gay.

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  30. Christine

    Define “gay scene”

    I’m gay, have gay friends and we all hang out and do gay things. Does this count?

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  31. Caitlin

    I enjoyed the fact that the first thing I saw on Autostraddle’s homepage was a picture of me and the rest of my dorm half naked.

    Lol Smith College

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    1. Alexa

      hahaha I also enjoyed the fact that when I went to Autostaddle I saw Cushing house halfnaked at Convocation on the screen.

      I had to submit something for Smith :)

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  32. C Palmer

    Yayy UPenn!

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  33. sarah elizabeth

    Just submitted for Indiana University!

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  34. Reese

    Any Chicago universities being covered?
    I see that our Evanston friends are represented, but anyone from Loyola Chicago, Roosevelt, DePaul, University of Illinois at Chicago, UChicago, Columbia College, Harold Washington, Northeastern Illinois University, or the SAIC?

    …I think those are all the Chicago universities…

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  35. Mackenzie

    Where’s the love for the south? Since you’re doing a piece on Indiana University, you should do an article on University of Louisville since they’re in the same general area… kinda.

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    1. sarah elizabeth

      Ah, good idea Mackenzie! And let’s be honest, they pretty much are. :)

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  36. Shayyy

    Someone please do University of Hawaii at Manoa!

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    1. Reese

      Um…queer girls in bikinis? I second this.

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  37. Chelsea

    University of Nebraska?

    lol nobody cares about us anyway

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  38. Cam

    How about any HBCU’s ?
    No?
    Maybe?
    Lol

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    1. Jenn

      MTE. With all due respect, Autostraddle, please recognize your white privilege in action right now.

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    2. lash

      HAHAHAHA at this. I would really love to believe they already have someone doing that but …..

      I’ll just shrug like Patrice O’Neal. We know.

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    3. Bren

      If your school isn’t on this list and you feel like it should be, email us and ask if you can write about it. It’s likely it’s not on this list because we’ve already got somebody writing about it, but if not then we’ll give you the green light.

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  39. fragola

    Grinnell and Carleton but not Macalester? Guessing it’s because nobody knows about this place. *Sigh*

    Also, I can’t decide if I’m too lazy to do this. Or too apathetic about my school. I might email and ask about it.

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    1. KB

      Also no St. Olaf lol. We both must have gotten lost in the shuffle.

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      1. milmo

        fuck yeah St. Olaf!

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  40. Heather

    I go to the University of South Florida, I can write something if you need it!

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  41. Jenn

    Jumping on the bandwagon about side-eyeing the must be “involved in the gay scene on your campus.” I think members could gain a buttload of information from those who AREN’T involved in the queer scene on campus. For example: my university’s queer community is split pretty much down the middle: queer white people and queer people of color. Queer white people dominate the LGBTQA group, LGBTQ services, etc. Queer people of color are not involved in these areas of campus life because they don’t feel comfortable, included, etc. So technically they can’t respond to this survey, because they’re not “involved” on campus. I’m a queer white chick, but I don’t participate in my campus’s LGBTQA because of how whitewashed it is. Therefore I can’t participate in your survey as well.

    I respect your efforts to address queer life on college campuses, but please remember to include those of us who may be forgotten. Your standards as you have them now are a bit exclusive.

    (I will also be emailing this to the email address provided in the post)

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    1. Lizz

      I’m pretty sure “involved in the gay scene” just sort of means had an awareness of the state of gayness acceptability/gay fun-ness on campus. So maybe not in the closet, living far off campus and not being involved in any clubs/groups/friendships/classes on campus. I would say having an awareness of a racial split on campus counts as being involved (even if you’re not bffs with people in the LGBTQA groups).

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  42. Ashley

    Probably no one cares about my college, but I may email anyway. Albany College of Pharmacy and Health Sciences, anyone?

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  43. Bren

    Ya’ll have some serious feelings about your schools! This is great!

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  44. junkie

    University of Toronto please?

    ENTERING FRESHMAN

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    1. Jenn

      *drooool* I want to go there for grad school ;_;

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  45. keanu reeves

    Also entering freshman! St. George I’m assuming? Wha’cha headed there for?

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  46. Elizabeth

    University of Maryland in Baltimore (UMBC)!!
    We hosted B-more Proud! Great drag shows and clubs, I love the queer crowd here.

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