I had to be comfortable enough to say, “I like this, but not that” to someone I’d just met, because if I couldn’t, I might get my clit bit again.
Eclipse season is always an emotionally charged time when stakes feel higher and we’re more aware of what is dying and what is being born.
A new study suggests sexually active lesbian teens have more partners and lost their virginities earlier than heterosexuals and that one in five lesbian’s most recent sex partner was a man.
Trusting physics, trusting agency, trusting desire, and trusting the people I played with changed everything.
“I now have a million conspiracy theories in my head about the possibility that maybe the girl I met in person was not the same girl writing me these emails.”
“I’ve gotten so good at telling people what I like and what I want that I’ve been accused of topping from the bottom, but telling people what I don’t like is completely different territory.”
“We have heard of a number of attempts to go down on a lover underwater, but apparently few women possess the breath-holding capacity to take their lover all the way to orgasm.”
The first time I knew I was a top was when a girl I was dating said, “Please, hit me harder,” and then, later, whispered, “I can take more than you can give me.”
Can I PURR-SWADE you???
Maybe the reason your friend/the older self-professed queen at the bar/your co-worker/that girl Claire won’t stop talking about finding someone is because they have 25 times more Keurig flavor options than the whole of their supposed dating pool — we’re scientifically improbable.
Innovative new sex toy or lobster claw clamped on your clit?
How do you tell someone, “Hey, I’d love it if you’d slap me around and tell me what to do”?
Turns out, you tell them just like that.
People who want to have period sex have more and varied sex more often and report higher sexual satisfaction than anyone else, a survey finds.
Exploring the erotic significance of wheelchairs is an opportunity to refuse the limited choices available for sexual narration.
Started as a bottom, now I’m here.
Tap into that Capricorn energy to be patient and realistic about whatever comes up, and honor your inner wise old crone this month as you navigate all your loves and likes and lusts: picture yourself in ten, twenty, or thirty years and think about the life you’d like to build.
I want more sex toys like the Minna Limon please.
Enamel pins, yes, but also so much more! Come get some ideas for tiny small Valentine’s Day gifts for your little heart thief and/or best friendo.
Here are some things to look out for when you are a bisexual polyamorous woman looking to start a relationship with an established couple.
The silicone Je Joue Ami Balls will help you kill your kegels.