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		<title>By: Kate</title>
		<link>http://www.autostraddle.com/butch-please-broken-hearted-butch-152343/#comment-316096</link>
		<dc:creator>Kate</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 07 Jun 2013 03:55:36 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[literally, aimee was out there waiting.

sorry guys i had to]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>literally, aimee was out there waiting.</p>
<p>sorry guys i had to</p>
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		<title>By: Heidi</title>
		<link>http://www.autostraddle.com/butch-please-broken-hearted-butch-152343/#comment-285021</link>
		<dc:creator>Heidi</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 23 Jan 2013 17:39:31 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[Are you writing a book? If not you should get on that stat!! Beautiful.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Are you writing a book? If not you should get on that stat!! Beautiful.</p>
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		<title>By: Samantha</title>
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		<dc:creator>Samantha</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 01 Jan 2013 22:15:51 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[You are so so brave to write this nakedly. I wish I had half your bravery and your eloquence.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>You are so so brave to write this nakedly. I wish I had half your bravery and your eloquence.</p>
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		<title>By: Jarrah</title>
		<link>http://www.autostraddle.com/butch-please-broken-hearted-butch-152343/#comment-274411</link>
		<dc:creator>Jarrah</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 30 Dec 2012 02:56:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I always drop everything to stop and read whenever something new from you appears here.

This is beautiful.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I always drop everything to stop and read whenever something new from you appears here.</p>
<p>This is beautiful.</p>
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		<title>By: Tara</title>
		<link>http://www.autostraddle.com/butch-please-broken-hearted-butch-152343/#comment-274161</link>
		<dc:creator>Tara</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sat, 29 Dec 2012 08:08:39 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#039;You learned to love her on a sea of skin and spines that spelled out “soon, you’ll meet her soon,” &#039;

That is the singular most beautiful thing I have read this month.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>&#8216;You learned to love her on a sea of skin and spines that spelled out “soon, you’ll meet her soon,” &#8216;</p>
<p>That is the singular most beautiful thing I have read this month.</p>
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		<title>By: JB</title>
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		<dc:creator>JB</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 27 Dec 2012 08:06:29 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[it is like you speak to the deepest, darkest crevices of my soul with every article.  Reading your writing makes me feel both vulnerable and envious of how beautifully you can express yourself.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>it is like you speak to the deepest, darkest crevices of my soul with every article.  Reading your writing makes me feel both vulnerable and envious of how beautifully you can express yourself.</p>
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		<title>By: kpee</title>
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		<dc:creator>kpee</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Dec 2012 19:22:30 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[kate, please don&#039;t stop writing. pleeeease don&#039;t. even when there is critical feedback, even when there is straight-up criticism. keep going. write about that, too, about what that feels like, about where that hits your heart. your &quot;emotional drivel&quot; is all kinds of catharsis for so many of us (clearly) who struggle with these issues, too, and you do it so, so well.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>kate, please don&#8217;t stop writing. pleeeease don&#8217;t. even when there is critical feedback, even when there is straight-up criticism. keep going. write about that, too, about what that feels like, about where that hits your heart. your &#8220;emotional drivel&#8221; is all kinds of catharsis for so many of us (clearly) who struggle with these issues, too, and you do it so, so well.</p>
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		<title>By: Kimberly</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kimberly</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 25 Dec 2012 04:46:04 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[My relationships with guys were always &quot;well, they like me, so I&#039;m supposed to like them, right?&quot;.
Interestingly, I&#039;ve only ever once had a crush on a straight girl (my first girlcrush, and it didn&#039;t last long).  I think it&#039;s still some sort of self-protection that I&#039;m only ever interested in girls who have already mentioned their gayness.  Keeps me from getting hurt, maybe.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>My relationships with guys were always &#8220;well, they like me, so I&#8217;m supposed to like them, right?&#8221;.<br />
Interestingly, I&#8217;ve only ever once had a crush on a straight girl (my first girlcrush, and it didn&#8217;t last long).  I think it&#8217;s still some sort of self-protection that I&#8217;m only ever interested in girls who have already mentioned their gayness.  Keeps me from getting hurt, maybe.</p>
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		<title>By: jenny</title>
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		<dc:creator>jenny</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Dec 2012 13:07:35 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[This is poetry]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>This is poetry</p>
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		<title>By: Liesl</title>
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		<dc:creator>Liesl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Dec 2012 05:44:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[When I dated men I tended to be the one doing all the pursuing. I built a lot of my dating life around getting guys that weren&#039;t originally interested in me. For some reason that was never appealing when I came out. Maybe it&#039;s because I wasn&#039;t actually interested in those men the way I was interested in the girls I later dated. But I have never understood the appeal of straight girls. For me it&#039;s a turn off. But I know that feelings can&#039;t be controlled so well, and we really don&#039;t have much of a choice as to who we develop feelings for. 
This is a beautiful article. *hug*]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>When I dated men I tended to be the one doing all the pursuing. I built a lot of my dating life around getting guys that weren&#8217;t originally interested in me. For some reason that was never appealing when I came out. Maybe it&#8217;s because I wasn&#8217;t actually interested in those men the way I was interested in the girls I later dated. But I have never understood the appeal of straight girls. For me it&#8217;s a turn off. But I know that feelings can&#8217;t be controlled so well, and we really don&#8217;t have much of a choice as to who we develop feelings for.<br />
This is a beautiful article. *hug*</p>
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		<title>By: Ashley</title>
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		<dc:creator>Ashley</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Dec 2012 03:58:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[So many feels.]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So many feels.</p>
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		<title>By: Kiyo can't log in</title>
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		<dc:creator>Kiyo can't log in</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 24 Dec 2012 00:58:22 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I just have a quick inquiry if it&#039;s all right. Also, sorry to bother you with such a silly little question, Kate, but do you read all of the comments you receive? Just wondering. Lovely, inspiring, well-articulated and heartfelt article, by the way~]]></description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I just have a quick inquiry if it&#8217;s all right. Also, sorry to bother you with such a silly little question, Kate, but do you read all of the comments you receive? Just wondering. Lovely, inspiring, well-articulated and heartfelt article, by the way~</p>
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