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Ali

Ali

Queer sex blogger and erotica writer with a passion for books, nerdery, and her girlfriend. Oh, and her cat. He's a handsome cat.

March 19, 2013

Liquor in the Cream: The Feminist Pirate

This is a cocktail that I made up out of my mind brain in an effort to use Bittermen’s Xocolatl Mole Bitters. It has the look and consistency of a coffee milkshake, but it tastes like rum.

March 16, 2013

Google Reader Alternatives: RSS Readers For Thwarted Souls

Didja hear? Google reader is being deactivated on July 1st. Here are a few replacements.

March 12, 2013

Christine Quinn for (Openly Gay, Female) Mayor of New York City!

Totally qualified, totally awesome Christine Quinn wants to be the next mayor of New York City! Also, she walked down the aisle to Ave Maria… the Beyoncé version. I mean come on.

March 11, 2013

EU Wants To Fix Gender Inequality... By Banning Porn?

The European Parliament is set to vote March 12th on a proposal that seeks to ban all forms of “pornography” from “the media” without really specifying to which pornography or media they’re referring.

March 09, 2013

Three Tech-Savvy Panties for Futuristic Sexy Funtimes

It’s time to tech your queer panties, because who doesn’t want panties you can control with a remote? Here’s three pairs of panties similar to the one’s we’ve recommended, the difference being that they buzz and you have to charge them every once in a while.

March 08, 2013

You Need Help: Harnesses For Trans* Women

As a trans* chick with not much going on “downstairs” I’m intrigued with using strapons instead of my actual bits, just not sure how best approach it. Can anyone recommend harnesses with a little extra room in the crotch that won’t break the bank?

March 07, 2013

Watch Ash Beckham Explain Why "That's So Gay" Is So, So Wrong

Ash Beckham takes down the use of “that’s so gay” as a pejorative. We all clap and cheer because that’s what we’ve been trying to say and she says it so excellently! Four for you, Ash. Four for you.

March 07, 2013

Liquor in the Panties: Silk Panties for Underwear Week

Today, we’re making Silk Panties. Panties panties panties. Let’s make a vodka drink.

March 02, 2013

All of the Apps for All of Your Password Issues

There are almost as many ways to make your computer remember your password for you as there are passwords you have to remember.

March 01, 2013

You Need Help: Let's Talk About (Having More) Sex

“Am I allowed to tell my girlfriend that I would like to have sex more often? If so, how?”

February 25, 2013

A Gift From the Tumblrverse: "Said to Lady Journos"

You don’t even have to be a journalist to recognize (and roll your eyes/groan about) the full spectrum of ignorance and sexism these lady journos have experienced.

February 23, 2013

Queer Your Tech With Fun: Google Glass Means You Wear A Computer on Your Eyes

Google Glass is just that – a pair of glasses. But instead of having sunglass lenses or prescription lenses, they’ve got a computer instead

February 22, 2013

You Need Help: The Quest For Awesome Queer Feminist Porn

“I’d like to see if porn does anything for me, would you have any (ethical, lesbian) recommendations for the first try of a young adult with an eye for the femmier?”

February 16, 2013

Get Smart: TED Talks That Will Make Your Brain Expand

It’s Saturday, and you know what’s better than Saturday morning cartoons? Some TED talks about technology.

February 12, 2013

Same-Sex Military Couples Will Now Receive (Some) Benefits

Secretary of Defense Leon Panetta has announced that the Pentagon will start providing some benefits to same-sex couples in the military. Bravo! Baby steps.

February 09, 2013

Some Light Nemo Reading: Everything You Never Knew About the Technology of Storms

A lovely weather technology link round up to keep you entertained if you’re snowed in, or even if you’re not.

February 07, 2013

Liquor in the Team Pick: I Want To Drink "Writers Tears"

We are big fans of whiskey here. There’s an entire kitten devoted to where the whiskey comes from.

February 05, 2013

After Yet Another Trans* Woman's Murder, Change Is Coming for Hate Crime Sentencing in DC

Last year Deoni Jones was stabbed to death at a bus stop. This year, at her vigil, her family asked some tough questions about why the murder was not prosecuted as a hate crime. Mayor Vincent Gray responded to those questions.

February 02, 2013

What Printer Should I Buy?

All the news, tips and tricks on printers that’s fit to print.

February 01, 2013

You Need Help: Real Talk About Your First Strap-On

“Help! I just got a strap-on and it turns out I’m not so skilled at using it (yet). How do I learn?”

January 31, 2013

"Marrying Well" Might Be Important For British Men, Is Not Necessarily Evidence of Feminism

“When asked whether their daughters thought their financial future was dependent on having a husband, only 31.9 per cent agreed. By contrast 37.7 per cent of those with sons thought having a wife would make them financially secure.”

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January 25, 2013

Liquor in the Wine Cellar: Learning Words for Wine

Here are some basic words we can use while we’re discussing wine.

January 22, 2013

You Need Help: No One's An Expert on Orgasms Right Away

“I’ve been hanging out/ hooking up with this girl for about a month. I have her pretty figured out physically and can get her off fairly quick, but the same can’t be said about her. I don’t have a problem with it, but it’s starting to make her upset. Help.”

January 19, 2013

Virtual Currency Bitcoin is Fascinating, Terrifying, Maybe The Future

It sounds like it’s straight out of ‘Hackers,’ but it’s real. Whether it seems like a good idea is up to you.

January 17, 2013

What We Talk About When We Talk About Flogging

Gather ’round, queers, and let me tell you the tale of The Christmas Flogger. It is a tale of how my girlfriend and I negotiated, bought and learned to use our very first flogger.

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