All The Queer Valentine’s Day Parties That We Know About

What are you doing on Valentine’s Day? Oh, you don’t know yet? What, you don’t plan out your February 14 activities and outfit months in advance? Cool, me either, it’s no big deal. (Just kidding, me and my boo have already pre-ordered our food for the evening and I made my V-day tights last week).

For those of you still figuring out what you’re doing – whether that’s looking to find a cutie or already have one attached to your hip – we’ve scoured the internet for the hottest queer parties around North America. This is by no means a comprehensive list so let us (and all the queers in your area know) what’s happening around your neck of the woods.

California

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What: Juicy & Rage Presents: The Love Bites Party
When: Thursday, February 14
Where: Rage, 8911 Santa Monica Blvd., West Hollywood, CA 90069
Why: The ultimate Valentine’s Day party for singles and couples, hosted by TRLW’s Whitney Mixter. Prizes for the couple that “puts the best smack down,” which I’m guessing translates to: you will be rewarded for making out at this party.
Details: $5 before 10:30 pmwith RSVP, $10 after 10:30pm

Florida

What: Eat Your Heart Out on Valentine’s Day
When: Thursday, February 14, 7pm
Where: New Moon, 2440 Wilton Drive, Wilton Manors, Florida 33305
Why: A “speed dating EXTRAVAGANZA” with beats by DJ ELYSE, karaoke, a raffle, and free cupcakes for the first 50 guests!
Details: For information about speed dating registration, email jennifer@hollywoodgazette.com. Registration is free but limited to 30 women.

Kentucky

What: With Love, Rebel Riot Revue: Valentine’s Burlesque Show
When: Friday, February 15, 9pm
Where: Cosmic Charlie’s, 388 Woodland Avenue, Lexington, Kentucky 40508
Why: Lexington’s premier burlesque/variety show celebrates V-Day with stripteases, acrobatics, fire, singing, dancing, comedy, boobs, and more!
Details: $15 in advance, $20 at the door, 18+

Maryland

What: GLITTER THIGHS: Queer Dance Party At Last!
When: Sunday, February 17, 8pm
Where: Metro Gallery, 1700 North Charles Street, Baltimore, Maryland 21201
Why: The name, duh. But also because this is the first installment of what hopes to be a monthly queer dance party. Featuring a variety show, photo and kissing booths, and a dance party with DJ Woman.
Details: $8, 21+

Massachusetts

What: LGBT Coalition Presents: The V-Day Dance
When: Friday, February 15, 8pm-midnight
Where: Clarion Hotel Ballroom, 1Atwood Drive, Northampton
Why: A benefit for the Shining Star Scholarship Fund, with Hors D’oeuvres & Cash Bar.
Details: $15 in advance, $20 at the door. 18+

New Mexico

What: Dandykor presents Queer Valentine Cuteness
When: Friday, February 15, 8pm
Where: The Kosmos, 1715 5th St. NW, Albuquerque, New Mexico
Why: Valentine making craft table, flirt games, voyeur/ exhibitionist corner, mood lighting, hot drinks, cuddling time, kissing/ spanking booth!
Details: 7$-10$ sliding scale, 18+

New York

What: LESBIAN PROM
When: Thursday, February 14, 8pm
Where: The Dalloway, 525 Broome St, New York, New York 10013
Why: Um hello, PROM! Throw on your dapper tux or your sparkly princess dress and go have a magical night at this super fancy lesbian-implied establishment.
Details: No cover, 21+

What: Anti-Valentines Day Dance Party
When: Thursday, February 14, 9pm
Where: 51 3rd Street, Troy NY 12180
Why: A super fun dance party to raise funds for Ladyfest Upstate.
Details: Sliding scale $3-7

What: OP’s STILL SINGLE: A Post-Valentines Meltdown (Party)
When: Friday, February 15, 10pm
Where: Wreck Room, 940 Flushing Ave  Brooklyn, NY 11206
Why: Join ROCCO KATASTROPHE and AMOS MAC as they host a dance party for the broken-hearted and bitter and all their happy friends! Mandatory slow dancing and a photo booth.
Details: No minors

What: Werk Those Pecs: Valentine’s Edition (featuring Schmekel and Mal Blum)
When: Saturday, February 16, 9pm
Where: SlateNY, 54 W. 21st Street, New York, New York 10010
Why: A fundraiser that features a live dating show with three eligible queer bachelors, red light/green light style party bracelets, live music from Schmekel, Mal Blum, Emily R. Thomas, AND go-go dancers! Also the raffle prizes are kind of amazing, including a 4 day, 3 night, luxury hotel Miami vacation and a Pure Fixie Kilo. For more info about what Werk Those Pecs is all about, check out their tumblr.
Details: $10 before 11pm, $15 after

What: Phresh Cutz
When: Saturday, February 23, 8pm
Where: Location TBA
Why:  I’m just going to quote them because I don’t think I could have given a better explanation as to why you need to go: “Bringin’ the post V-day party ’cause we’re real sweet on you.”
Details: Affordable alternative lifestyle haircuts and good looking people.

Ohio

What: Queer Valentine’s Day Mixer
When: February 15, 5pm-7pm
Where: University of Cincinnati, Tangeman University Center Room 417 ABC
Why: All are welcome to attend this mixer sponsored by Colors of Pride, an LGBTQ student group for QPOC on the campus of the University of Cincinnati.

Pennsylvania

What: February Stimulus: 4th Annual Red and Pink Affair
When: Friday, February 15, 10pm
Where: Voyeur Nightclub, 1221 Saint James Street, Philadelphia, Pennsylvania 19107
Why: Stimulus is looking out for the single ladies with speed dating hosted by Philly’s own love doctor, Dr. Timaree. DJs, drink specials, and a pink and red dress code!
Details: $10 all night

Toronto

What: Queer Valentine’s Slow Dance
When: Saturday, February 9, 9:30pm
Where: Dovercourt House, 805 Dovercourt Rd. (1 block North of Bloor, 3 blks. west of Ossington)
Why: With designated dancers to help out the wallflowers, earnest slow songs and a promise to be like “high school with a happy ending,” this party probably will win the award for Most Adorable Thing, from me.
Details: $10, 19+

Washington, D.C.

What: F@#k Valentines Day Karaoke Boozer
When: Thursday, February 14, 9pm
Where: Phase 1, 525 8th St SE, Washington, DC 20018
Why: This party doesn’t give a fuck if you are single or taken, bitter or sweet. With dirt-cheap shots starting at $2 and singing and dancing all night, everyone will be a winner.
Details: No cover, 21+


Ok party lovers, what did I miss? Don’t keep your hot queer event a secret!

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          there’s a bus stop right across the street, not sure what lines though because I drive. if you go on the mbta website they have a trip planner that will tell you what routes to take, or you can use google maps and select the public transit option.

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          From Allston, you can either take the B line to park street and walk over to DTX. Midway is at the Stony Brook stop (you’ll want to go toward forest hills) or you can take the 66 (you can catch it at the corner of Commonwealth and Harvard. Take that to Jamaicaway and transfer to the 39, which goes to forest hills. From there, you’d take the orange line two stops to stony brook. I live in Brighton and my girlfriend lives right by the forest hills stop, so it’d be easier and faster for me to take the buses, but they’re always super packed so I usually just take the train.

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      Rose,
      I found these in the email I get from queeragenda dot com. I went to one night stand last month and had a blast, so I’m going again this month. Pretty sure the event that is supposed to happen tonight at machine is being rescheduled.

      2/15:
      Boston Lesbian Happy Hour

      6:30 pm

      Club Cafe

      209 Columbus Ave

      Boston, MA

      Valentine’s Day is upon us, my lady loving friends. Regardless of your plans the night before, save Friday, February 15 for Lesbian Happy Happy Hour at Club Cafe! If you ask me, it’s a perfect time to mingle with friends and make some new ones…wink…wink…

      For more info, visit the Meetup event page.
      2/16:
      One Night Stand: All Party, No Pretense

      8 pm – 2 am
      Who’s on First
      19 Yawkey Way
      Boston, MA

      Cover: $5 in advance if you register here, or $10 at the door
      21+

      In true lesbian style, what was supposed to just be a ONE NIGHT STAND was so incredible- we are back for more!

      8-9 pm: Queer Mixer – ice breaker games include Speed Schmooze and Guess that Gay Icon – or just come early, grab a table and a beer

      9 pm -2am: DJ Andrea Stamas and DJ Jodi spin the night away with top 40, pop, dance, vocal house and your fave’s from the 80s and 90s too!

      This will your best night out for the holiday weekend—once again a no frills, no break the bank night of stimulation, collaboration, activation. Featuring only $5 cover if you sign up for the guest list in advance, $2 shots, $3 drafts and free coat room.

      This event is brought to you by: ButchBoi Life, MadFemmePride, DJ Jodi Entertainment, Studio A Entertainment, and Kristen Porter Presents.

      This is also the official after-party for the Boston Butch Voices Community Conversation, taking place earlier that day and hosted by your friends at ButchBoi Life!

      For more info, visit the Facebook page!

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        Machine is “rescheduled” to 4th Saturday, but only because that was already planned. Dyke Night at Machine is apparently every 2nd and 4th Saturday from now on.

        W.r.t. One Night Stand- rumor has it it’s a butch/femme mixer thing. Is it? The majority of my friends and I tend to be more of femme-loving femmes and were thus skeptical about going.

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          I went to One Night Stand last month, and even though it had a butch-femme dating thing at the beginning (9pm), after 10, it’s just a whole lot of cute queers dancing :)

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          There is the femme/butch mixer, but it’s hosted by butch boi life and mad femme pride. There are plenty of femmes that love femmes! Come out and dance!

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          OMG!
          One Night Stand is becoming one of the biggest events around. Yes there is a Butch/femme mixer to help break the ice. But let me tell you all types of ladies/girls come in!

          The music is off the wall, we play current/pop/throwbacks/ dance/ latin…….you name it,you will hear hear it!

          I hope you decide to come check out our next event on 03/16/13!! It is our Erin GO Braless party!!

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    I live in Poland, and I’m jealous! because in Poland we don’t have special party for lesbians… this is sad.
    We do not even partnerships, same-sex marriage, legal adoption. We have nothing. This is polish reality. Americans are lucky.
    Btw. If you want to feel like in the Middle Ages, come to Poland! :D Greetings from fucking Dark Ages, M.

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    Halifax, NS, Canada

    Just grabbed the description right off http://gay.hfxns.org/LocalEvents

    8:00 p.m. to 1:30 a.m.
    BIDE AWHILE ANIMAL SHELTER DANCE OFF & Fundraiser at Menz & Mollyz Bar, 2182 Gottingen St. Halifax, 902- 446-6969, http://www.MenzMollyzBar?.ca – A Great VALENTINE’S DAY Fundraiser for an AMAZING Cause! Created by Ti Hadley , hosted by Shayla Shenanigans with DJ NICK Nonsense playing all your favorite hits all night long. Party starts at 8pm and will run till 1:30am. Tickets $10 each or 2 for $16. Bar Specials: 32oz Draught ONLY $8.25 – 32oz Long Island Ice Tea $13 & Shooters $3 All Night long and DOOR PRIZES UP FOR GRABS

    Queers for cats… Sounds like something y’all might be interested in

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